आज के समय मे लगभग सभी लोग किसी न किसी से प्यार करते है और करना भी चाहिए क्योंकि प्यार दुनिया का सबसे अच्छा अहसास देने वाला रिश्ता है।
लेकिन दुनिया मे कुछ लोग प्यार का मतलब नही समझ पाते और प्यार करने का नाटक करके लोगो को धोखा देते है।
प्यार को न समझने वाले इसको खेल समझते है और इसके नाम पर धोखा भी देते है जैसे बहुत से लड़के, लड़कियों को प्यार में फंसा के उनसे शारीरिक सम्बन्ध बनाकर उनको धोखा देते है।
और ऐसे ही बहुत सी लड़कियाँ, पैसे के लिए लड़को से प्यार का नाटक करती है और उनके पैसों का इस्तेमाल करती है और जब कोई अधिक पैसे वाला लड़का मिलता है तो पुराने लड़के को धोखा दे देती है।
आज हम इसी विषय पर बात करेंगे कि यदि कोई लड़का किसी लड़की को धोखा देता है या कोई लड़की किसी लड़के को धोखा देती है तो उस बेवफा लड़की या लड़के के साथ क्या करना चाहिए।
यह जानने से पहले मैं अपनी सच्ची घटना बताना चाहता हूँ कि कैसे मुझे एक लड़की ने धोखा दिया और मैने उसके साथ क्या किया।
यदि आप यह सच्ची कहानी नहीं पढ़ना चाहते तो इसको छोड़कर नीचे धोखा देने वालों के साथ क्या करना चाहिए यह जानकारी पढ़ सकते है।
बेवफा लड़की ने दिया धोखा
दोस्तों मैं 24 साल का लड़का हूँ और मैं 10 वीं कक्षा से एक लड़की से प्यार करता था और 12 वीं कक्षा के बाद उस लड़की को Propose किया और वह लड़की भी मान गयी।
मुझे पता था कि लड़की ने सिर्फ Propose स्वीकार किया है लेकिन वह मुझे अभी प्यार नही करती है लेकिन मैंने सोचा कि कुछ समय के बाद वह मेरे सच्चे प्यार को पहचान जाएगी और उसे भी मुझसे प्यार हो जाएगा।
हम बात करते रहे और मेरा प्यार बढ़ता गया। उसकी जिंदगी में बहुत से लड़के आए लेकिन मैंने किसी न किसी वजह से उन्हें उसकी जिंदगी से दूर किया और अपनी जगह उसकी जिंदगी में बना ली और वह लड़की भी मुझसे प्यार करने लगी।
प्यार तो वह मुझसे करती थी लेकिन झूठ बोलती थी, सच छुपाती थी और बहुत मना करने के बाद भी वह बोलती थी कि अब झूठ नही बोलूंगी लेकिन वह अपनी आदत से लाचार थी।
ऐसे 4 साल बीत गए और College खत्म हो गया और अब उसे सरकारी नौकरी की तैयारी करने के लिए उसी शहर में रुकना था और मुझे नौकरी के लिए दूसरे शहर जाना था।
मैंने उसे बहुत समझाया कि सिर्फ पढ़ाई करना और किसी की बातों में मत आना मुझसे झूठ मत बोलना न कभी सच छुपाना।
यदि कभी कोई लड़का पसन्द आये तो मुझे बता देना और मुझे छोड़ देना, उसके बाद उससे दोस्ती या कोई सम्बन्ध बनाना। तो उसने बोला ऐसा कभी नही होगा और फिर मैं दूसरे शहर चला गया।
मैंने नौकरी Join की और काम करने लगा जितना समय हो सकता उसे देता और वह भी पढ़ाई करती लेकिन Time pass अधिक करती और दूसरों की जिंदगी में अधिक मतलब रखतीं।
ऐसे ही समय बीतता गया मेरी तबियत खराब हुई मैंने जॉब छोड़ दी और घर आ गया, कुछ समय घर पर रुकने की सोची।
उस लड़की को सरकारी नौकरी नही लग रही थी क्योंकि वह पढ़ाई कम और दूसरों कामो में अधिक Time pass करती थी मैंने उससे बोला अधिक मेहनत करो तो उसने बोला Coaching करनी होगी तब जॉब लगेगी।
तो मैने उसको बोला ठीक है Coaching Join करलो और पैसे की चिंता मत करो। जबकि मुझे पता था Coaching में बहुत कम लोग पढ़ाई करते है अधिकतर लोग सिर्फ Time pass और लड़की-लड़को के चक्कर मे Coaching करते हैं।
वह Coaching जाने लगीं और थोड़ी बहुत पढ़ाई करने लगी, लेकिन अभी भी वह Time पास अधिक करती थी।
मैंने भी फिर से जॉब करने की सोची और उस लड़की से बोला कि मैं जॉब के लिए जा रहा हूँ तुम अच्छे से रहना और किसी से मतलब मत रखना सिर्फ पढ़ाई करना।
फिर से मैं दूसरे शहर में जॉब करने लगा और वह उसी शहर में पढ़ाई करने लगी, उसकी झूठ बोलने और सच छुपाने की बुरी आदत अब भी थी।
ऐसे ही चल रहा था लेकिन एक दिन उसके कोचिंग के लड़के ने उससे नंबर मंगा क्योकि यह भी उसे देखती होगी। तो इसने नंबर देने से मना कर दिया और मुझे बताया कि मुझे एक लड़का बहुत प्यार करता है और नंबर मांग रहा हैं।
तो मैंने बोला यदि तुम्हें पसन्द है तो मुझे छोड़ के उसे नंबर दे सकती हो और यदि तुम मुझसे प्यार करती हो तो उसे नंबर देने का कोई मतलब नही है अपनी पढ़ाई करो। तो उसने बोला ठीक हैं नंबर नही दूँगी।
अब मैं काम करने लगा और यह लड़की उस लड़के से नयी Facebook ID बनाकर बात करने लगी और अपना नंबर भी दे दिया और फ़ोन पर बात करने लगी।
मैं सभी बातों से अनजान था काम कर रहा था और सुबह शाम जब टाइम मिलता उससे बात करता था वह भी दोनों से बात कर रही थीं।
एक दिन मुझे Facebook चलाते समय उसके नाम की Facebook ID दिखी तो मुझे लगा उसने बनाई है तो कॉल करके पूछा कि क्या तुमने Facebook ID बनाई है तो उसने साफ मना कर दिया कि उसने कोई ID नही बनाई वह सिर्फ पढ़ाई करती हैं।
मैने सोचा कोई और लड़की भी हो सकती है उसके नाम की और सब भूल कर अपने काम मे लग गया।
ऐसे ही चल रहा था। लड़की उस लड़के के साथ घूमने लगी, उससे मिलने लगी मुझे कुछ पता नही था।
अचानक एक दिन मेरी तबियत खराब हो गयी और मुझे घर वालों ने वापिस आने को बोला कि तबियत खराब है तो जॉब छोड़कर घर आ जाओ। तो मैंने दवाई खाई और जैसे ही तबियत ठीक हुई नौकरी छोड़ कर वापिस घर आ गया।
फिर मैंने सोचा की उससे मिल लू क्योंकि बहुत दिन हो गए है तो उसको मैंने बोला में आ रहा हूँ आलू के पराठा बना लेना तो उसने बोला ठीक है।
जब मैं वहाँ पहुँचा तो उसने पराठा नही बनाये थे क्योंकि उसे दूसरे लड़के की वजह से समय नही मिला होगा और वह सुबह के बासे सादे पराठे लेकर आयी।
मैंने खुशी-खुशी वही खाये और फिर बैठकर बाते की और Shopping की और शाम को वापिस आते समय देर हो गयी और मेरा मोबाइल Discharge हो गया तो मैने उसका मोबाइल मांगा।
तो उसने बोला ठीक है सिम बदल लो और मोबाइल ले जाओ लेकिन अचानक से उसे याद आया कि उसके मोबाइल में वह नयी Facebook Id खुली है तो उसने सामने ही Facebook Application को Uninstall कर दिया तो मुझे समझ आ गया कि वह फर्जी Facebook Id उसी की थीं।
फिर मैंने उससे पूछा की फर्जी Facebook ID का Username और Password बताओ तो उसने बोला कि उसने Temporary Email id से बनाई थी जो मुझे याद नही हैं ना ही Password याद है।
मुझे थोड़ा बहुत Technical Knowledge है जिससे मैंने सोचा की मैं Mobile में ID खोलने की कोशिश कर सकता हूँ इसलिए लड़की के मना करने के बाद भी दोनों मोबाइल लेकर घर आ गया।
घर पहुँचकर मैंने ID खोलने की कोशिश की तो पता चला कि उसने फर्जी id उसके दूसरे नंबर से बनाई है और फिर मैंने सब Chatting पढ़ी तो समझ आया कि इनका क्या रिश्ता है और क्या-क्या इनके बीच हो गया हैं।
मैंने उसको Call करके बहुत सुनाया की पहले बता देती और मुझे छोड़ देती जब मैं पसंद नही था लेकिन वह झूठ बोलती रही कि उनके बीच कोई रिश्ता नही है और न ही उसको उसका नंबर पता हैं।
फिर दूसरे दिन वह सुबह मेरे शहर आ जाती है और मुझसे मिलती है कि मुझसे गलती हो गयी अब ऐसा नही होगा और मोबाइल लेकर वापिस जाने लगती है।
लेकिन मुझे पता चलता है कि उसने अपनी दोस्त के Mobile से आखरी रात को भी उस लड़के को कॉल किया था और बोला था कि मेरे नंबर पर कॉल मत करना तब मुझे पता चला कि इसको उस लड़के का नंबर भी याद है।
फिर मुझे समझ आया कि जिस लड़की को अपने पापा और मम्मी का नंबर याद नही उसे उस लड़के का नंबर याद है तो बात कितने आगे जा चुकी हैं।
तो मैंने उससे बोला कि अब मुझे छोड़कर अपनी लाइफ अच्छे से व्यतीत करो क्योंकि मुझे तुमसे नफरत हो गयी हैं और तुम्हें देखकर सिर्फ गुस्सा आती हैं।
लेकिन लड़की मुझे छोड़ने का नाम नहीं ले रही थी बोल रही माफ कर दो अब ऐसा नही होगा तो मैंने उसे आखरी मौका दिया और बोला कि अब ऐसा होगा तो तुम्हे छोड़ दूँगा।
मुझे पता है वह लड़की फिर से मुझे धोखा देगी क्योकि वह मुझ से प्यार नही करती है अगर करती होती तो धोका नही देती लेकिन मौका मैंने उसे नही अपने आप को दिया है।
अब यदि वह धोखा देगी तो उससे शादी करके पूरी जिंदगी उसको तकलीफ दूंगा।
सुबह-शाम वह बात याद दिला-दिला कर उसकी जिंदगी नर्क बना दूंगा, क्योकि एक बार गलती होने पर मैंने उसे माफ़ किया और दूसरा मौका दिया अब धोखा देगी तो वह इसी लायक होगी।
बेवफा लड़की या लड़के के साथ क्या करना चाहिए
यदि आप भी किसी से बहुत प्यार करते है और उसने आपको धोखा दिया है तो उसे एक और मौका देना ताकि वह अपनी गलती सुधार सकें क्योंकि गलतियां इंसान से ही होती हैं।
परन्तु यदि कोई इंसान बार-बार वही गलती करें तो फिर उसे कभी माफ मत करना क्योकि वह गलती नही उसकी आदत बन गयी है और वह नही बदल सकती हैं।
धोखा मिलने के बाद मौका दे यदि फिर भी न सुधारे या गलती ठीक ना करें तो जितनी तकलीफ उसके धोके से आपको हुई है उतनी तकलीफ रोज उसे दे ऐसा कोई जुगाड़ करे।
बेवफाओ को सजा देना बहुत जरूरी है ताकि लोग प्यार को बदनाम ना करे।
बेवफाओं को दर्द कैसे दे
बेवफा को दर्द देने के लिए सबसे पहले उससे शादी करे कैसे भी करके। उसके बाद पूरी जिंदगी उनको वह बात याद दिलाये और सुबह शाम जलील करे। घर से बाहर कही न जाने दे एक रूम में कैद करके पूरी जिंदगी गुजरने पर मजबूर कर दे।
यदि आपकी बेवफा आपसे शादी नही करती है और आपको छोड़ देती है तो उसके husband को या नए boyfriend को अपने सम्बन्धो के बारे में बताए ताकि वह गुस्से में आकर उसको पूरी जिंदगी भर दर्द दे।
ऐसे ही आप कई तरीकों से अपनी बेवफा को दर्द दे सकते और अपने दर्द को कुछ हद तक कम कर सकते हैं। अपनी बेवफा को माफ कभी न करे।
अपनी बेवफा को दर्द देने के तरीकों में ऐसा कोई भी तरीका न अपनाए जो शारीरिक रूप से उसे दर्द दे और कानूनी तरह से गलत हो।
कानून को अपने हाथ में कभी न ले न ही कभी कानून के नियमों का उल्लंघन करें।
जरूर पढ़िए:-
- लड़की को कैसे पटाए
- लड़किया प्यार में धोका क्यों देती हैं
- सच्चे प्यार को कैसे भुलाए
- Love Marriage और Arrange Marriage में अंतर
बेवफाओं को माफ क्यों नही करना चाहिए
बेवफाओ को कभी माफ न करे क्योकि इससे वह दूसरे लोगो को भी धोखा देती है और नए लोगो को धोखा देना सिखाती है जिससे प्यार का नाम बदनाम होता हैं।
इन्ही बेवफाओ की वजह से आज प्यार इतना बदनाम है और हमारे परिवार के लोग इस प्यार के खिलाफ है।
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Hello sir. Please help me main bahot depression me hu mujhe nhi samjh aa rha h main kya karu
Mera 4 year ka relationship tha rahul mujhe fb pe mila tha hmari baate hui msg me call pe fir hum mile aur 6 month time pass kar rha tha wo mere sath kyon ki uski ex gf thi usko bhulna tha but 6 month k bad wo mujhse pyar karne lga aur 2 year hmara relationship bahot achha chala month me hum 1 bar milte the thik chal rha tha but lockdown k bad wo mujhe time nhi dene lga aur hmari fight hone lagi dhire dhire hmari fight badhti gai aur pahle hmari baate bnd hoti thi to wo convance karta tha mujhe hmesa aur jyada din baate bnd nhi hoti thi but lockdown k bad 20 -20 din baat nhi hoti thi aur wo nhi karta tha baat main hi kisi excuse se use samjhati thi baat karti thi to wo baat karne lagta tha but ek bar hmari fight hui maine v baat nhi kiya wo v nhi kiya pure 1 month mujhe lga wo exam ko lekar busy hoga esliye baat nhi karta mujhse main wait kar rhi thi but maine uski I’d check ki to mujhe ek ladki mili maine usse baat ki to woh mujhe btai ki ek month se wo uski gf h jab maine ye baat usse puchha to wo bola aisa kuchh nhi h jab screen shot diye to usne accept kiya but fir v usne mujhse maffi nii maangi na to usne mujhe koi safai di baat nhi kar rhi thi main gusse se wo v nhi kiya mujhse fir maine use milne kaha to wo mila mujhse maine uska phone maanga wo mujhe nhi diya uss time v fir 10 din k bad wo mujhe I’d password sab kuchh de diya fir hmari baate hone lagi but fight bahot hoti thi aur baat bnd ho jati thi meri fb I’d uske pas thi hmari baate to nhi ho rhi thi to maine apni ek frnd ko fake I’d bna kar diye aur wo mujhse boy bnn kar baat ki kuchh din rahul dekha sare msg to usne block kar diya fake I’d ko maine fir se unblock kar k baat karne lagi to rahul uss I’d pe gali dene lga aur bola 4 year ka relationship h hmara ye gussa h esliye tumse baat kar rhi h tu nikal jaa ye wo bola aur wo mujhe ek v call nhi karta tha iske bad usne 100 bar call kiya fir main v usse baat karne lagi aur maine btaya ki wo fake I’d thi uske bad hmari baate hone lagi aur fight v bahot hoti thi chhoti chhoti baato ko lekar usne kaha tha meri job ho jayegi to main shadi karunfa tumse aur uski job hone wali h physical ki taiyari kar rha h last 6 December 2020 ko main usse mili thi usne mujhse kaha join karne do fir main shadi karunga tumse but hmari fight ho gai fir se aur usne mujhse sare relation khatm kar liye main bahot roi use samjhaye pagal ho chuki hu main but usne mujhe block kar diya aur na to mujhse baat karna chahta h na koi mtlb rakhna chahra h aur ab kisi aur ladki se baat karta h but accept nhi kiya mere samne lekin maine uske room mate se puchha to wo btaya wo kisi ladki se baat karta h main nhi bhul paa rhi hu use main din raat ro rhi hu na khane ka hosh h na kisi aur chiz ka 4 year ka relationship tha mere liye bhulna bahot mushkil h main full night so nhi paati hu bs rote rahti hu wo mere msg ka reply v nhi karta use koi mtlb hi nhi h ab bahot khush h wo apni life me but meri halat bahot kharab h main marr jaungi iss tarah se kya karu main..😔😔
Hi Ishika Arora,
Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Uski pahle se ek gf thi aur use dubara pyar hua to teesri bar hona koi bdi bat nhi hai,
Jaise usne pahli gf ko chhoda waise apko bhi chhodna koi bdi bat nhi hai.
Apko uske bare me sochne se jyada apne future ke bare me sochna chahiye.
Kisi ke life me aane ya jane se hamari life par jyada frk nhi padhna chahiye kyoki life me log aate jate rhte hai.
Is love ke chakkar se bahar nikalkar apne career aur future par dhyan dijiye.
Hope you understand my msg.
Thank you
Ek bat me puchu sir ,man liya isne usse pyar kiya iski galti isko dhoka mila lekin w bharwa to khus hai na apni life me ,ab ye lrki bhi kisi aache lrke ke sath adjust hojayegi ye lrki bhi apni life me busy hojayegi ,lekin mera sawal ye hai ab ye jis sidhe lrke ko apna bf bnayegi uska kya hoga ,uski kya galti hai jo usko kisika chora hua mal accept Krna pre ,ager w lrka aacha hua to usko q ye log saza dere 😔💔us bhean ke lode Rahul ko bhi khusi milegi isko bhi milegi lekin us aache lrke ki kya galti rahi hogi jo usko ye sab dard bhugatna hoga 💔💔🥺sirf in jaise lrke or lrkiyo ki wajah se aaj hum bar bar dipression me chale jate hai sab khte hai past ko accept kr kabhi kabhi to sucide krne ka man krta hai lgta hai sari galti hamari hi hai ,q humne kisiko dhoka nei diya humko bhi play boy hona chaiye tha tab aachi lrki milti 🥺🥺💔🙏
Sir me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujse bahut pyar karti he or hum 4 sal se relationship me he par usne bich me 3 ladko se. Bat ki thi ek se 7 din ke liye or ek se 3 din ke liye or ek se to sirf 2 hi din or tab bhi wo mujse hi bat karti thi iye bat hum dono relationship me the uske bich ki hi he.
Usko mene bahut pucha mene usko meri ksm mere pyar ki ksm bhi di ki mere alawa tu kisse bat karti he par usne kabhi nhi kaha meri ksm bhi juthi khayi .par jab muje bahar se pata chala 2 ladko ke bare me tab bahut bar puchne par bataya.or mene pucha inke alawa koi or ho to bata de par usne nhi bataya fir kuch dino. Bad mene usko imotional karke pucha to usne sab sach bata diya or glti ke liye mafi bhi mangi
Wo muje chodna nhi chahti or me bhi usse bahut pyar karta hu or hum dono ne apne gr pe bhi bata diya he
To kya me us ladki par bharosa kar sakta hu kya wo muje aage jakar dokha nhi degi
Humare gr wale shadi ki bat kar rahe he
Muje aesa kabhi nhi laga ki uska pyar mere liye pahle se kam ho gaya he.wo mere liye kuch bhi karne ko teyyar he.par juth bahut bolti he
Usne meri ksm bhi bahut bar juthi khai
Par ab wo kahti he ki me tere bhina nhi rah sakti me ab koi glti nhi karungi u.hamara gr pass pass me hi he.mene 12 dino se uski trf dekha bhi nhi or usse bat bhi nhi ki .par wo mere samne hi dekhti rahti he usle gr wale ho tab bhi 9r kahti he mere se bat nhi ki to me mar jaungi u.sir bat to me bhi bahut karna chahta hu par smj nhi aa raha us par kese bharosa karu.sir please.koi solution bataiye.
Hi Jitu,
Kasam se kuch nhi hota hai.
Riste viswad par chalte hai to apko uspe viswas krna chahiye
Rahi bat dhokha dene ki to galtiya logo se hoti rhti hai.
Aap usko maf karo aur riste ko bnaye raho.
Best wishes for your life.
Hi Sir
Ek Ladki hai Jo mere sath piche le 1.5 saal se hai. But suddenly usne mujhe bataya ki uska ek Boyfriend hai or vo uske sath 4 saal se hai. Main ne usko pucha bhi agar tum uske sath 4 saal se ho to mujhe kyun relationship main laaye usne bola sb itne jaldi jaldi main hua aap mujhe acche lagene lage. Us ne mujhe bola ki main ne kai baar aap ko batane ki kosis ki but himmat nhi hui. Main ne use uske Facebook se pakda.or usne mujhe bola ki aap ko pta chal gya hai to main jhut nhi bolungi. Main bhi usse bht pyar karta hu. Vo mujhe bol rhi hai main alag nhi hona chahti hu mujh se . But vo 4 saale se jiske sath hai usko bhi nhi chodna chahti hai.
Plz suggest mujhe kya karna chahiye
yadi wah pahle kisi se pyar karti thi 4 sal se relation me hai
aur apke sath 1.5 year se relation hai
to do logo se pyar kaise ho skta.
Mere according apko door rhna chahiye.
Hello gyes anybody can suggest me main bhi ek ladke se pyar karti hun pahle bo bhi mujhse pyar karta tha ab usne kisi aur se sadi kar li ab bo mujhse baat to karta hai lekin bo care aur pyar nahi hai btao main kya karun help karo meri use Iski saja dun ya khud ko aise hi taklif main rakhun please help me gyes
Ap usko bhul jao kyuki bhai ne jo kaha h uski vhi saja h is raste me bahut dard h jitna age jaoge utna apke jaisa mere sath bhi ho rha h par vo mujhse bat na krke happy h Or uski khushi hi meri khushi ap ache se is bat ko samjh sakte ho beacuse one side love is true love. I feel your pain, so relax you forget him, be happy no bp bindas rehne ka. Kyuki mtlb ki bat krne wale kabhi kisi ki care nhi kr sakte h😊
sir mujhe o ladki 4 saal k baad bar bar chhodne ko kehti he o bolti he o mujhe pyar nhi karti uske dil me mese liye feelings nahi he mujhse dur jane ki kosis karti . Tum jaoge to me khus rahungi puri jindegi bolti he or mere mana karne k baad b nahi manti
Ho skta hai usko pyar na ho apse
ya fir ho skta koi dusra better person mil gya ho
aur bhi kayi karan ho skte hai
Pyar me jabarjasti nhi hoti yadi wah aange sath nhi rhna chahti to usko jane do.
Sir
I am married
And I am happy with my husband
Pr ek ladka mujhe presan karta hai shadi ke liye force bhi karta hai but I hate him
Or me apne husband ko bhi nhi bta sakti kyoki wo mere husband ko nuksan pahuncha sakta hai
Wo bhut khatarnak hai
Ok kuchh suggest kro
Hi Rani,
Aapko apne husband ko sb sach btana chahiye aur police ki madad leni chahiye.
Hi sir kya aap bta skte h mujhe ki agr koi ladka ek bewfa ladki se shadi ho gyi h dhokhe se to ab o ladka us ladki ko chhodkar ke dusri shadi krna chahta h to kya kr skta h kya
Hi, Indian rules ke anusar pahli patni ki marji ke bina dusri sadi krna kanoonan apradh hai.
Tum uske sare messages or recording ko savekarke police ko de skti ho aur apne hsband ko btado or unse kaho ki ye bt kid ko na pata chald isse tunhare husband ko kuchh hogabhi nhi or wo pakda jyga
I am married
Or ek ladka hai jo mujhe jabardasti sadi ke liye force kr rha hai
But I love my husband
Mujhe wo ladka bilkul pasand nhi hai pr wo bhut dangerous hai and wo mere husband ko nuksan bhi pahuncha sakta hai isliye mene mere husband ko kuch nhi btaya hai
But ab me us pagal ladke se kese picha chhudau
Plz suggest me
Hello Rani,
Yah ek serious matter hai isme apko apne husband ko btana chahiye aur police ki madad leni chahiye.
Uske friends bhi uski tarah hi dangerous hai
Or isliye wo itna confident rahta hai
Or darta bhi nhi hai na to police se or na hi kisi or se
Aap mujhe btao me use kese samjhau ki wo mera picha chhod de hamesha ke liye
Hi Rani,
Police ke bahut powerful hai unke samne kisi bhi galat insan ki nahi chalti isliye police ki madad lena hi sbse aasan aur safe tareeka hai kisi bhi badmas se peechha chhudane ke liye.
Hello rani i can suggest u can u talk with me whatsaap
Hello chaitanya
Myself Gulshan.. Mai ek ladki se bahut pareshan hu.. Pls help me please… Mai married hu.. Aur woh ladki kabhi bolti hai married to kabhi unmarried
Ok o ladka koan h pahli bat ye and 2 bat ye ki shadi se pahle bhi o tumhari life m tha
Hloo Sir..
Apki story padhkar sach me apka dukh mehsus hua…..
Ab Aata Hu Apne matter pe ..
Main aur Meri GF hum dono long distance relationship me h 3 saalo se…
2019 me hum dono mile the last time Uske bad SE Abtak milna possible na ho paya h…….
Mere andar bhtt insecurities aati h us SE itna dur rehne ke wajh SE …
Iska koi ilaaz btaiye……
Aur main yha apni ek bat share Karna Chahta Hu ki Maine us SE uski n*de pics mangi thi aur usne de bhi Di .
Iska yhi mtlb hua na sir ki wo mujhpe trust Karti h aur kbhi cheat na kregi …
Plzz rplyy me sir main Aksar kafi frustrated ho Jata Hu usko khone ke dar se
Hello Anmol,
Insecurities hona achhi bat hai kyoki iska mtlb hai ap usse pyar karte hai aur usko khone se darte hai aur hamare pas iska koi ilaj nhi hai.
Apne pyar par viswas rakhe baki sb achha hoga
Thank you jo apne apni dil ki bat share ki
Sir thoda LdR ko maintain Karne ke Kuch Strong tips btaiye…
3 Saal ho gye h but ab wo phle wali excitement na bachi h
Hello Anmol,
Jyada time tk Long Distance Relationship muskil se chalti hai wo bhi jb dono ke sachcha pyar ho.
Isliye jb time mile milne ki kosis karo aur ho ske to sadi karke sath rho 🙂
Hello sir mai e ladke se bht pyar karti hu aur vo meri frnd se karta tha lekin meri frnd ne use dhoka diya or us ladke ne mujhe diya tha vo mujhse bt krta tha fr achanak chhod ke meri frnd se bat karne laga or ab jb meri frnd se use dhoka mila to vo mujhse request arke mujhse baat karta hai ar mujhse mil bhi chuka hai kya or ab lekin vo busy hone ki wajah se mujhse jada bat nai kr pata to kya vo mujhse pyar karta hai ya nahi?plzz mujhe btaiye
Hi Arshi,
Yadi koi pahle kisi ke liye apko chhod chuka hai to future me koi dusra milega to bhi apko chhod skta hai.
Lekin yadi aap bhi usko pyar karti ho to ek moka de skti hai
Baki sb apko hi soch smjhkar faisla lena hoga
Hello sir!
Mere se ek bahut bari galti hai samajh me nahi aa raha hai kya kare kya na kare.Hum bhi kisi ladki se bahut pyar karte the itna ki bata nahi sakte Hain. Lekin wo mere se har baat chhupati thi humesha jhooth usse kuchh puchhte the to usme bhi jhooth (wo Ladki bhi mere bahut pyar karti thi lekin uska pyar karne Ka jo tarika tha wo hume pasanad nahi tha ) lekin baad me kuchh aisa hua hum kuchh samajh nahi paye or uske family wale ko bata diye uske family wale ko batakar hum bahut sad hain kuchh samajh nahi aa raha hai kya kare.akhir hum uske family wale ko bataye kyu aaj isi ke wajah se hum sarmindagi mahsus kar hain.( Sir plzz kuchh isse kuchh niwaran hai to bataiye)
Yadi ap use ladki se pyar karte hai to kosis karo ladki ke ghar walo ko mnane ki aur kya problem hai.
Hlw sir,
Mera ek ladka ko pyaar karrahethi uske baad ek ladka mujhe pyaar kiye aur mera saath baat karne ke liye laga,mein socha usika saath flotting karungi real pyaar hogya aur ek ladka pahale jo tha po bhi tha o bhi mare saath baat kar rehethi dusra ladka oo mera saath baat kiya then usika saath mera pyaar hogya then pahale jo ladka thaa usiko saab pata chala geya isliye usika phn number leke aaya usika saath baat karne laga..usika baad hamara beach main sab solutions hogya tha.
Abhi mein pahale jo ladka tha usika saath mein hun mrg hoga hamara..dusra ladka mere ko bahut blackmail karte hai aur mein usiko solutions pucha oo bola mujhe 2solutiom hai tum mera saath baat karoge aur dusra wala hai mein app ka jahana bulaungi mere saath jaoge
Jisika saath mrg hoga oo bolta hai mujhe tum usika saath baat maat karo..abhi mein kya karunga sir pls boliye.app ko paun pokdti hun solutions do mujhe.
Hello Riya,
Apko pyar chhodkar apne future par focus krna chahiye kyoki apko kuCh pta nahi hai ki aap kisse pyar krti ho aur kon apse pyar krta hai.
Hello sir , mai mere bf ke sth lagbhag 4 saal ka relationship h .mujhse pehle unki gf thi jisse inka breakup ho gya aisa inhone bola tha but kuch reasons se inki gf inka picha nhi chor rhi thi but inhone kabhi uski identity mujhe nhi btyi ..clg me ek do baar sth dekha dono ko kisi ne mujhe pta chla to bole sth nhi the etc ..bole uski shadi ho jaye to picha chut jayega aise nhi chodegi mujhe ..uski shadi ho gyi ek din maine inka phone dekha to video call padi thi shadi ke din ki or chatting messenger pr ki last time mil lo abhi soch lo abhi bhi mujhse shadi kr lo etc …inhone mujhse kasam khyi or bole wo shadi kr le isliye baat ki thi ..maine khud ko bht smjhya kya kru dum ghut rha tha bht kuch smjh nhi aa rha tha ..maine ek chance inke frnd ke kehne pr de diya bole wo past h tm present ..ek din inki gf ne mujhe msg kiya bola jaise mujhe chora h tujhe bhi chor dega etc or abuse kiya …mai bht preshan ho gyi depression me chali gyi ..1 month baat nhi ki kisi se apni feeling share nhi kr skti dum ghut rha h …maine shadi ke liye bola to bole caste alg h nhi hogi pr maine itna force kiya roti rhti hu to bole apni padhai pr dhyn do job pawo job pa logi to duniya tumre piche hogi aisa to possible nhi ki her pyar krne wale ki shadi hi ho ..maine kaha mai job pa lu to tm kroge to bole kosis krunga pr mujhe apni family chorni padegi etc …but mai ye soch rhi hu ki mujhe pta h 95 per chance h ki wo mujhse shadi na kre mai fir bhi usi ka wait krti hu strong nhi bn pati hu roti hu depression me hu chize tod deti hu khud ko harm krne ka mann krta h but itna sense rehta h ki family meri h unko hurt nhi krna ….aj 1 week ho gya call nhi kiya jb mai krungi to koi na bahana ya mujh pr hi ilzaam tmne kyu nhi kiya … mujhe guide kijiye mai kaha glt hu kya krna chahiye kaise strong bnu … thanks sir ho ske to meri problem publice na kijiye thanku
Hello Vandu,
Yadi apko pta hai ki uski pahle gf thi aur wah apke sath bhi sirf timepass kr rha sadi ya future ka koi plan nhi hai to ap uske sath apna time waste kar rhi hai.
Yese logo se door rho jo tumhare liye apni family ko nhi mna skte aur aaj ke time me cast bgera se koi frk nahi pdta kosis krne se sb maan jate hai.
Yadi wah ldka apse sadi ke liye mna krta hai to usse door rho aur apni family aur future par dhyan do.
HOPE APKO HAMARI BAT SMJH AAYEGI
I think sis. Ki apko 1 baar unse mil kr saaf saaf baat kr leni chahiy ki kya problem h kyuki koi itna busy nh rhta ki 24 hours me 5 min. Naa nikal ske or vo toh 1 week se call nh kr rhee hmesha ap hi jhuko jroori toh nh relation dono trf se chlta h 1 trf se nhh chl pata ap unse baat kriy short out krne ki koshish kriy or agr apko lgta h ki unki life me apki koi value nh h tohh ap usi jgh se unki life se chli jaiye baaki agr unhe value hogi vo dobara contact krenge
Apne career or family pe dhyan dijiye or chhod dijiye ye boyfriend or girlfriend ka chakkar… Family jise chunkar life partner banaye baki ka pyar nachhowar kar dijiye apne husband pe…
Pyar family se kariye dekhiye kitna aannad milta hai.. apni study me busy ho jaiye… Koi or v try kre to aap accept na kariye…
Bilkul sahi kaha bhaiya apne life mein sirf carrier pe focus karo wahi sabse achaa apka gf bf hai
Hlo vandu ji. Same story meri bhi hai ji. But meri long distance relationship hai. Wo ladki bhi apne ex ke liye mujhe bar bar hurt ki dhokhe di. Aur jab uske ex bf ne use chhod diya to mere pass roke aati hai ki mujhe dhokha diya usne ye wo. Fir usne mere ko wait karaya ki exam tak ruk jao tab btaugi ki me apse pyar krti hu ya na. Ab exam bhi hogye but agr ab me usse puchhe ki pyar krti ho ya na to kahti hai ap pagal the jo wait kiya. Mene uske liye wait kiya aur usne ulta mujhe galat btaya . So me bhi ab use bhulne ki koshish kar raha hu. But itna sanjh chuka hu ki agr jis person ko hmse itne din tak pyar n hua to aage bhi kbhi n hoga bass use krege apka. Actually aajkl pyar ke nam pe girls Nd boys ko use kiya jata hai aur pyar me andhe ham use bhi khub hote hai. Hmko lagta h ham unke liye achha kar rhe hai but bad m wo apko hi galat bolege so apse request hai study pe dhyan dijiye aur ho sake to jo kam apko achha lagta ho jaise ki babies k sath khelna apne friend, relative person k sath time spend kijiye. Asha krte hai ap bhut jald is depression se nikal jaogi aur apni new life enjoy krogi . Thanks
Dear friend ,woh apse time pass kr rha hai. Main tih yhi khunga bhul jao app usey
Sir ek ldkii mujhe psnd thii mene usse baat kii uskii hii frnd ke dwara ….or 2 mhine tkk m uske sth as a frnd rha or uske bdd mene usko propose kra usne mna krdiya ……orr bhtt brr mna kra … Vo ye reasn btatii h kii m phle bhii ek ldke ke sth relation me rhh chukii hu 2 saal mujhe usse pyr naa hua to tmse bhii naa hua to. ….orr abb aakr to vo koii bhii baat nhii maantii bss apnii baate mnvatii rhtii h ….hmm dono dur ke ristedaar h to uska ye bhii khna h kii hmari shhadiii me dikkat hogii pr mera maan na h kii nhii hogii kukii dur ke ristedaar h isliye …..mtlb bhtt dur ke h…..to abb sir m kya kru uska khna h kii mere piche tym brbdd mtt kro move on krlo prr mujhe uskii aadat pdd chukii h bhtt jyada …. Orr. Kbhii kbhii ye bhii khh detii h kii mujhe abhii. Nhii aaana relation. Me to m khh deta hu koii nii bdd me aajanna to khtii h bdd ka kya pta kya pta mujhe koii orr mil jaye ……isliye abhii khtm kro yrr sbb …..phle to vo bestie maantii thii prr abb vo bhii nhii maantii khtii h kii hmm bestie ho hi nhii skte kukii tm mujhse pyr krte ho …..sir abb aap hii btaiye m kya kru
Yadi aap pahle se ristedar hai to pahle apka rista kya hai aur wah humsfar me badal skta hai ya nahi wah dhyan dene wali bat hai.
Yadi apko lgta hai ki family apke riste ko swikar karegi aur yah sahi hoga to fir ladki ko manna hoga. Ladki nhi man rhi to ho uski najar me koi aur ladka ho jisse wah pasand karti ho isliye yadi ladki nahi maan rhi to move on karke apni life par dhyan dijiye aur yadi ladki aur ghar wale maan rhe to dono sadi krke enjoy kijiye.
HELLO SIR
MERE BOYFRIEND SHADISHUDA HAI AND USKE BAD BHI WO MUJHSE AUR NA JANE KITNI LADKIYON SE BAT KRTE HAI SO MUJHE UNKE SATH KYA KARNA CHAHIYE
Yadi wah jhooth bolkar apko girlfriend bnaya hai to apko uske upr case krna chahiye taki dusri ldkiyo ke sath yesa na kar paye.
Dear mam,jab apkp pta hai worried hain toh app unhe chod do. Kyunki yeg sirf time pass hain unke liye , thank you. god bless you.
Hlo sir
Mujhe aapse ye baat puchni thi agr saadi se phele bf k saath ab kuch ho but saadi na ho paayi to mujhe aage problem ho sakti h ky
Hello Annnu,
Ji nahi apko koi paresani nhi hogi sirf apko itna yad rkhna hai ki iske bare me apke husband ko kahi bahar se koi insan na btaye.
Sir wo ladki pyar to karti h par hoot bhut bolti h, or bhi dusro ke sath time pass bhi karti thi, ek din ladai hui gusse m mene use gali de di, tab se wo us bat ko leke bat ni kar rhi pahle bhi wo moka dhundte rahti thi bat na karne ka . Par ab to mil hi gya.. lein m bhut pareshan hu mera man ni lag rha khi par bhi ni, m kya karu…
Hello Rajat,
Yadi wah apse pyar krti hogi to kuch dino ke bad kudh aapke pas wapis aayegi, isliye chinta na kare.
Aap use mnane ki kosis krte rhe yadi pyar krti hogi to kuch samay ke bad man jayegi aur apke sath time pas kr rhi hogi to nhi manegi.
Yadi wah maan jati hai to uske sath khushi khushi life enjoy kare, yadi wah nhi manti hai to usse door rhe kyoki jhoothe pyar se door rhna hi achha hota hai.
Rahi bat apke man na lgne ki bat to kuch samay uske bina rho to sahi uski yaad aana bhi band ho jayegi.
Dosto ke sath rho aur busy rhne ki kosis kro yah time bde bde ghav bhar deta hai.
Hlo sir maine aap se pahle v bataya tha ki meri gf dubai me rahti hai aur mai v Last time jab mai use mila uske baad usne block kr diya tha.use baate band ho gayi thi sabhi jagah se block kr diya tha usne mujhe.
Sir mujhe 1 month baad wo mall me achank mili maine use baat ki to sari baat puchi ki mujhe kyu block kiya tha usne jhooth bol ke mujhe samjha diya. Aur mera num unblock kr di aur mujhe apne ghar v le gayi. Us din ham dono ne confusion clear kiya.
But sir maine uska phone chek kiya jis me wo ek ladke se baat krti hai wo ladka use paise v bhejta hai. Aur isne mujhe us ladke ke baare me pahle v batya tha mujhe kehti thi mai ise pasand ni krti .But ab use baate krti hai kyu ki wo ise paise deta hai.
Usne mujhse v 1-2 baar paise mange mere pass the but maine ise diya nahi.Mai ise samjhna chahta tha ki mujhse pyar krti v hai ya nahi but ye mujhse pyar ka natak krti thi.
Sir ek ladka aur hai jisse wo 2 saal se bat krti hai.iska class mate tha jab se ye dubai ayi hai tab se ladka ise baat nahi krta sahi se.ladka ise pasand nahi krta ab pahle jaise. Ye soch rahi hai use shadi krne ke liye. Sir mujhe iske sath rah ke pyar ho geya hai mai uske bina rah v nahi sakta but wo hai ki smajhti v nahi hai. Pahle mujhe bahut importance deti thi but ab drama krti hai sahi se baat v nahi krti.Jab ki sir mai un ladko se good looking aur job v aachi hai meri fir v.
Sir us ladki ko pata lag geya hai ki ye baki lakdo ki tarah mere uper paise nhi karchta.
But paise ki koi baat nahi hai mai use paise de du but pyar ka natak krti hai.
Sir kya kru mai use pyar krta hun isiliye mai use kuch keh v nahi sakta jo kahti hai mai man jata hun.yah jante hue v ki wo jhooth bol rahi hai. Sir mere msg ka reply v late deti aur baat v nahi kr rahi sahi se. Sir ye 3 lakdo se baat krti hai. Fir v mai iska wait krta hun ki ye samjh jayegi aur man jayegi but sir ab ye bahut jada drama kr rahi hai.Mera man to krta hai jis se ye shadi karegi use iski photos dikha ke shadi tudwa dun. Use baat nahi hoti to kaam me v man ni lagta.kabhi kabhi man krta hai job chod ke india chala jau apne ghar walo ke pass. Sir aap batao mai kya kru iska mujhe kuch samjh nahi aa raha.
Hello Rohan,
Yadi aap ladki se pyar krte hai aur use pana chahte hai to uski sabhi jarurto ko poora krne ki kosis kijiye jiske bad uske pas dusre ldko se bat krne ki koi wajah nhi rh jayegi aur tum uski madad kroge to ladki ko bhi tumse pyar ho jayega. Lekin yad rkhna sb theek hone ke bad uski pichhli life jisme wo teen ldko se bat kr rhi hai usko lekar jhgda mt krna wrna life barbad ho jayegi.
Dusri bat yadi apko lgta hai ki ldki dusro ladko se bat krti hai to wah buri ldki hai to usse door rhe kyoki aaj nahi to kal aap log is wajah se door ho jayege ki wah teen ldko se bat krti thi. isliye apne future par dhyan de aur us ldki se door rhe.
Kuch mahine thodi dikkat hogi lekin uske bad apko uske bina rhna aa jayega aur aap khushi khushi life gujar payege.
Or har bat m yad ati h uski me kabhi bhul nhi sakti mere 24 gamto uske liye ankho m anshu hote h ki bo mujhe mil Jaye
Ronika, Hm jiske sath rhte hai hme usse lagaw ho jata hai aur uske door jane ke khayal se hme bahut dukh hota hai lekin iska yah mtlb nhi hai ki poori life hme ek insan ke liye rote rhe.
Yadi aap dukhi hoti rhegi to apki family ko dukh hoga isliye apni family ke liye khush rhna seekho aur life ko enjoy karo.
Time bde se bde dukh ko bhula deta isliye bahadur bno aur parivar ke liye khushi kushi life ko enjoy karo.
Hlo sir,
Mai v ek ladke se bahot pyaar krti hu aur vo v mujhse krta h vo v mere liye loyal h aur mai v uske liye lakin uski shak krne ki aadat h jiski wajah se hmare beech kafi ladaiya hoti rhti h hm 6 saal se sth h pehle humdono ek hi sehar me the but kuch time baad padhai k liye mujhe dusre sehar me aana pda aur jb tk Mai waha thi tb tk sb thk chl rha tha bt jb mai dusre sehar aayi to kuch mahino baad hi shak shuru ho gya uska use mujh pr bharosa nhi rha hmesha screenshot mangne lga ki kisse baat kr rhi hu phone bzy ja rha , gali galoch krne lga, mai job krti thi mai bahut irritate hone lgi usse uski in harkato se, 2 saal ese hi hmara relation chlta rha mai relation khatam nhi krna chahti thi isliye mai sun leti thi aur ldai k baad vo sorry bolta maafi mangta tha to mai maaf kr deti thi or use dusra mauka v deti thi ki vo apni shak ki aadat chor de mene 2 saal tk use mauka deti rhi aur vo hmesha esa hi krta tha , fr mai bahoat pareshan ho gyi kyunki job krti thi to kbhi kbhi time nhi mil pata tha use time dene ka aur mai baat nhi kr pati thi to wo mere se gali se baat krta tha shak krta tha ki mera affair kisi aur k sth chl rha h, Mai kbhi kbhi gusse me baat v nhi krti thi but uske maafi mangne pr har baar maaf krke use mauka deti thi lakin fr v vo same thing krta tha, kyunki use mera kisi aur se frnds se ya office k logo se yani ladko se office k doston se baat krna psand nhi tha aur mai job krti thi to mujhe krni hoti thi sbhi se baat, bs isiliye mai bahoat confused hu ki esi situation me mujhe kya krna chahiye? Use chor dena chahy ya sth rhna chahiye, vo mere liye physco h kuch v kr skta h smajh nhi aata kya kru , pls suggest.
Hello Tannu,
Apki story padkar mujhe lgta hai ki aap dono ek dusre se bahut pyar krte ho isliye kosis kro yah ldai km ho jaye wrna risto ko tutne me der nhi lgti.
Aap dusre shahar me hai aur job ki wajah se time nhi de pati aur dusro ladko se bhi bat krti hai yese me apke lover ka sk krna koi bdi bat nhi hai.
Apka lover apko bahut pyar krta hai isliye sk krta hai aur apko khone ke dr se gusse me gali galoch krta hai aur ldai bhi krta hai lekin bad me fir maafi v maang leta hai yese insan ko kabhi na chhodna.
Ladai khatam krne ke liye ladke se bat krke ek shahar me shift hone ki kosis kre aur koi yesa kam kre jo dono milke kar paye jisse sath rhogo to ek dusre ke bare me sb pta rhega aur ldai khatam ho jayegi.
ya fir sbse achha solution hai sadi kr lijiye aur dono khushi khushi life enjoy kijiye.
Hlo sar aap bate Meri es m Kya galti h Jo mujhe esi saja mil rhi h 5 sal pehle ek ladke ne propose kiya to mene tb use Mana kr kr Diya m usse pasand karti thi fir nhi mna kr Diya fir kuch time bad usne mujhe dobara propose kiya or m man gayi pehle mujhe usse pyar nhi tha bo pasand tha Meri lekin bo mujhe se kheta tha ki pyar karta h mujhe to me uske payr ko samjhti gayi or usne mujhe bade kiye ki bo mujhe Sadi karega kabhi nhi chodega fir mujhe usse payar ho Gaya or Etna ho Gaya ki aaj tk sochti hu ki bo mujhe Sadi kr le m uskeliye kuch bhi Kar sakti hu lekin mera payar badta Gaya or mene use Sadi Karne ke liye kaha to ab usne mujhe ye bat boliki Meri Teri Sadi nhi ho sakti m tujhe Sadi nhi kr sakta kyuki Ghar wale nhi manege kabhi mene us kha ki m aapne Ghar wali Mana lugi aap apne walo ko Mana lo to usne Mana Kar Diya ki esa nhi ho sakta or bola m usi se Sadi kruga jissse ladke se mere j iaji kahege krne ko pr mene to unhe aapna sab kuch man rkha h Puri jindgi uski sath jood di mene or bo pyar bhi karta h mujhe aaj lekin kehta h Sadi nhi kerega to aap hi bato m Kya karu or mere Ghar wale Meri jabarsat kisi or se Sadi Kara his ladke se Kara rhe h bo mujhe pasnd nhi h to mere man sirf suiside ka option as RHA h m Kya glat Kar rhi hu ab mujhe usse esa Kya kehna chahiye ki bo mujhe se Sadi kr le ya iske age m Kya karu ye bate kyuki m es ko apne Ghar walo se syear nhi Kar sakti
Hello Ronika Sarma,
Yadi apka lover abhi se apka sath nhi de rha aur sadi se peechhe ht rha hai to wah jeevan bhar apko sath nhi de payege.
Aapko yese ldke se sadi nhi krni chahiye jo pyar to krta hai lekin ghar walo se bat nhi kr skta. Ho skta hai wo apse jhootha pyar krta ho ya sirf dikhawa krta ho kyoki yadi koi sachcha pyar krta hai to km se km ek bar apne ghar walo se bat jarur krta hai.
Aap ek bar apne lover ko bole ki yadi pyar krte ho to sadi ki bat gharme karo ya fir yah jhootha dikhawa krna band kro.
yadi ladka sadi ki bat gharme krta hai to achhi bat hai uske sath sadi krke khushi khushi life enjoy kare lekin yadi wah ghar me sadi ke liye bat nhi krta hai to uske pyar ko jhootha smjh apne parivar walo ke pyar ko smjhe aur ghar walo ki pasand ke ladke se sadi krke jeevan ka anand le.
Is duniya kuch khona aur kuch pana lga rhta hai isliye hme tension me aake galat faisle nahi krne chahiye.
Kabhi bhi Sucide krne ka khayal man me bhi mt lana kyoki apke parivar wale ne kitni mehnat se apko bda kiya hai yah sirf wahi jante hai isliye apne parivar ke logo ke pyar ke liye apko yah life khushi se jeena hai.
Kisi bhi dhokhebaj ke liye koi galat faisla lena sirf apke parivar ko dukh pahuchayega.
Apke future ke liye bes wishes.
sir balki wo 2 hafte phele ghr ayi usse mummy nai pucha ki beta shaadi ka kya seen h aap logo ka to usne bola ki 1 saal m krlenge to aap btao sir mujhe kya krna chahiye sidha court ka dawaja khatkhatu q ki sir meri itni himaat nhi h ki jiske liye itna sab kuch kra or ab whi mujhe jhoot bol rhi h q ki mere sath jo wo kr rhi h shi nhi h ldko p ungli uthane wale sab hte h aap btao is ldki ka kya krna chahiye
Hello Pawan,
Yadi apki gf ne apki mummy se sadi ke bare me bat ki hai to apko kuch bhi krne se pahle ek bar shanti se ldki se bat krni chahiye.
Yadi wah paise ke chakkar me apse sadi na krke kisi or se sadi krti hai to aap case kr skte hai lekin ek bat yad rhe ho skta kisi aur se sadi krne ke peeche koi dusra wajah ho isliye kuch bhi krne se pahle aaram se sb cheejo ko jaanch krke ki faisla lena hai.
Sir ek ldka hai jisko main 4 class se pasand krti hun aur aaj bhi krti hun chote mein wo mujhe dekh lar gaana gaata tha fir jab hamlog 6 class mein gaye to wo school chod diya main uske jaane ke baad bhi usko kbhi nahi bhuli aur hamesha usi ko yaad kiya fir main usse 9 saal ke baad mili to wo bhut piyaar se mila mera number liya main usko nahi balki usi ne mujhe pahchaana tha mujhe lga shayad upar waale ne hamein milwaya hai aur main bhut khush ho gai wo mujhse ek dum gf jaise baat krta hai lekin mere pucchne pr usne mujhe btaaya ke main bachpan se tumko apni choti behan aur best friend maanta hun lekin aaj bhi meri usse baat hoti hai to wo mujhe kbhi jaanu ,jaan , sweetheart, babu,yahan tk ki I love you bhi bolta hai aur mujhe I love you too bhi bolne bolta hai lekin fir bolta hai to meri choti bhan hai to kiya mujhe usse baat krni chahiye ya nahi jabki maine use bta bhi diya tha ki tum mere phle crush ho fir bhi wo mujhe bhan bolta hai lekin behave ekdum boyfriend jaise krta hai wo bhut smart hai sab chizon se accha hai lekin main ek sadharan si ldki hun jiska koi nahi hai meri ek bdi bhan hai bas ham dono mil kar bacchon ko pdhaye hain aur kiraye ke ghar mein rahte hain aur pdhai krte hain hamlog aur meri hight 4 foot 9 inch hai aap btaaiye ab mujhe kiya krna chahiye
Hello Darakhshan Zabi,
Aapki story bahut sundar aur alg hai isko hamare sath share krne ke liye Thank You.
Jarur nhi ki hmara jo crush ya pyar hai hm usse sadi hi kare yadi wah tumhari care ek bahin ke jaise krta hai to tum uski ek achhi dost bnke bhi is riste ko nibha skti ho.
Aur yadi ldka tumhe ek dost ya bahin ki najar se dekhta hai to fir ise jeevan sathi ke rup me laana bahut muskil kam hai.
Apko apni pdai aur future par dhyan dena chahiye jisse ap log life achhe se grow kr paye aur is crush ko ek dosti tk rakhke khushi kushi is pyare riste ko nibhana chahiye.
yadi upar wale ne chaha to ya rista pyar me badalkar jeevan sathi me bhi jarur badlega lekin iske liye jabarjasti krne se cheeje bigad jayegi.
Apke future ke liye Best Wisehs.
sir mera 4 years ka relation h mere ghrwalo ko sabko pata h usne mujhe wada kiya tha ki shaadi tujhse hi krungi chahe tu kuch bhi krta ho, sir mene sarkari job k liye try kiya or krta hu nhi ho paya sarkari tyari k sath job krta hu apni family ko sambhalne wala sirf m hu or uski jarurte bhi puri krta hu or parso uske liye ek rishta aya to kal galti s mene uska phne dekh liya or usme ladke ki photo arkhi thi or usne mujhse jhoot bola or sir mujhe bola ki mene usse photo nhi bhji or aaj pata chla ki usne photo bhj rkhi h. sir mujhe ye btao pvt. job krne walo ko pyar krne ka haq nhi h ya hum pvt. job walo ki itni aukaat ni h ki hum unhe paal paye aap mujhe ye btao ki jb ldka dhoka deta h or ldki case krti h to aap btao mujhe kya krna chahiye jb ldki nai dhoka diya
Hello Pawan,
Yadi ladki ya kisi jyada paise wale ke sath rista bnakar apse jhooth bolna shuru karde to yesi ladki ya ldke se rista khatam krke door rho.
Jo log paise ki value risto se bdi smjhte hai wo kabhi koi rista nahi nibha pate aur na hi yese logo se koi ummeed rakhni chahiye.
Aaj wo tumhe mil bhi jayegi to ho skta hai kal koi aur adhik paise wale ke chakkar me chhod de.
Yadi koi sachcha pyar krta hai to paise, job ya status nahi dekhta. Aur yadi koi job, status aur paise dekhe to smjh jana wo jhooth pyar hai.
sir aapki baat shi h par sir ldki dhoka khaye to ldke p case ho jata h ldki kre to kya kru sir m q sir meri family meri bhne mere rishtedaar sbko pata h uska yaha tk ki mere liye jitne rishte aaye mummy n mana kr diya ki nhi pawan nai dhoond rkhi h ab aap btao m kya mu s bolu ki usne chod diya mujhe paiso wale k liye
Family walo ko kuch mt bolo aur future par focus karo.
Rahi baat case krne ki to apne desh me sbko saman adhikar nahi hai.
sir kya kru smajh nhi aa rkha h mene sbke itna kiya pr mere sath aisa ho raha h sir chodna to h hi pr sabak dena jaruri h sir chahe ladka ho ya ladki dhoka ladka d ya ladki case to dono m hi banna chahiye.
Aap ek achhe lawer se bat krke ladki par case kr skte hai.
Aange kya hoga.
sir main kya karu
Focus on career, Pyar krne wale kabhi door nahi jate dost.
sir main sarthak hoon aur mere girl friend nay mujhay block kar diya hai aur uska phone aaya toh mane poochha ke aap ne block kyu kiya toh kehti hai ke mera man meri marji aur mane poochha ke kya kaaran tha tohusnay kuchh nahi bataya aur mujhko har baar rulati hai aur sir aur jab man kiya toh baat kar li aur jab man kiya toh off line chali gai aur ussay block kare huay 2 week ho gai hai main kya karu sir main bahut tanshan main hoon meri help karo
हेलो सार्थक,
यदि आप उससे प्यार करते हो उससे प्यार करते रहो लेकिन उसे पाने का मत सोचो क्योकि हो सकता वह तुम्हारे साथ टाइमपास कर रही हो इसलिए तुम्हे कभी भी ब्लॉक करती है और तुम्हारे दुःख से उसे कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता है।
अपने करियर और परिवार पर ध्यान दो यदि वह तुम्हारे पास आती है तो वह भी तुम्हे प्यार करती होगी और फिर उसके साथ ख़ुशी से रह पाओगे।
Me kisi ldki se 15 years se relationship me hu. 10 sal se o mere sath hi jaipur rajasthan me rhti thi. Uske papa nhi h so mene usko pdaya. Bacho ki tarah uska khyal rkha or udko job lgwa diya
Aaj o monthly 70/80 thousand Sallary h. Job lgne ke bad 1 year mere sath ache se rhi pr ab o mujse mtlb nhi rkhti. 15 sal me jo kmiya usne nhi dekhi last ek sal me usne mere me itni kmiya bta di.
Mene uske liya sb kuch kiya jo uska pariwar nhi kr sakta. Aaj mere pass kuch b nhi h jitna kmaya uspe hi khrach kiya ab aap btaye muje kya krma chahiy
Suna h o next month kisi se shadi kr rhi h.
Jo ki bahut paise wala h
Ab me kya kru
Plz tell me
Hello Rajaram Gochar,
Yadi wahi paise wale se pyar kar rhi hai to usko chhodkar apne future par dhyan dijiye.
Yese paise ke liye bhagne wali ladki kisi ko nahi hoti.
Sir mere ghar me sirf mummy 2Bhai or hm hai hm bade hai hmara apna praya koi v nhi mere ghar me bahut sari akal mirtu ke Karan sb koi mar gya koi hm 4ke alawa nhi hai Log kamjor smjh kr case v kr diya log mummy pr hm 13sal ke the tb hm pr v 1sal phle mere chhote Bhai pr v lekin usko hm log bacha liye, hm job krte the motar line me 6000 रुपए pr ghar chlana muskil tha hm 16sal ki age me Ghar se कदम nikale ghar ke jimedari के liye es job hmko grib mazbur smjh kr koi koi Galt bat ya chhu deta tha hm rote the apne kismat pr or us jgah se job छोड़ dete the mera koi sampati nhi tha ab bukhe lg rha tha hm sb mar jayenge hm sb ki padhai v band tha ek din hm job ke tlas me ek agency me gye waha ek sadi suda divorce wala jyada age ka aadmi mila wo pyar ka bat kiya hm bole Agr aana hai to Sadi krne aaiye wo bola thik hai bad me btaya Mera divorce ho gya hai mera Sadi hua tha aapko sach bta dete hai hm bole thik hai hme wo achh aadmi smjh me aaya bad me usse Pyar war bahut badh gya hmko ek bad me pta chla usko uski apni bhabhi se galat rista hai, mere pair tale जमीन khisk gya fir v himmat kr ke usko galti sudhane ka mauka diye o Bahut sari ladkiyo aaurat se ganda smband rkha tha hm Bahut bar pakde the Meri jiwan nark bn gya tha use dur v nhi ja rhe the pass v rh nhi pa rhe the ye mere samne achh insan bn rha tha pyar dikhata tha hme fsane ke liye gahna kharida hmesa 10 20 hzar rupya deta jisse hm smjhe pyar kr rha hai Tbhi to de rha hai uske pas hram ka Mal tha kisi v gadi me costomer se paisa aaithna tha or hr ladki me paisa Pani ke trah bahana, dene ko to diya bad me lene ke dimag lgane lga mera job chuda ke ghar baitha diya tha hm sb kuchh pura krenge aap job nhi kriy uske bad 1sal tk khub paisa diya sath pyar diya uske bad se jhagda ladhai or fir se apne bhabhi se bat krna suru or bolta tha hm Bahut achhe hai mamla bahut jyda hogya lekin Sadi krne ke liye bahana bnata tha mere sath sb kuch kr liya or 9/4/2021ko subah se mobile band kr ke bhag gya hai hm to rhe hai uske ghar wala dost staff koi v no, nhi de rha phle blem kiya log किडनैप kra di hai hm nhi dare bad me agle din bola dost uska wo thik hai lekin ab aapse bat nhi ho skta wo sabar kr liy aap v save kr lijiy lekin hm usse bahut pyar krte hai Wo ab Jan gya tha hm usse bahut pyar krte hai Wo ab kuchh v nhi deta tha jhagda krne pr tb kuch deta tha Nam ka or bolta mere pass nhi hai fir v hm usse Pyar krte rh gye hr koi bola chhor do hm nhi mane uske alawa kisi v ladke ladki se bat nhi krte the jyok hmlogo ka 4ke alawa koi nhi hai or ye chhor diya bich rasta me ab corona hai mere traf lockdown v lg gya hai ab hm log kaha se khaye Kya kre o v sath chhor diya 7sal purana case v khula hai usko bole the mummy ko bachana hai ab Kon krega ye sb Bhai Abhi Bahut chhota hai , or isme job v nhi mil rha kahi or sbse bada bat uske bina kuch v achh nhi lgta tha or aaj v nhi lg rha hai hm Kya kre bahut paresan hai aaj 3din hoga mobile band kiye usko khol hi nhi rha pta nhi aisa kyo ho rha hai mere sath bahut dukh mila bachpan se Abhi tk sir kuch btaiy Kya krna chahiy hmko
Hello Pooja,
Apko pyar vyar ke chakkr me na padkar apni family ko support krne ki jarurt hai.
sath hi jisne apko dhokha diya uske upr Police case krke usko sja dilane ki jarurt hai taki yese log kabhi dusri ladki ke sath galat krne ka soche bhi nahi.
Lekin sir uska bhahnoi ek Mahindra first choice deler hai usme ye Kam krta hai iske bahnoi ka bibah bhawan hai 3agency hai or ye hmko usse dur rhne ke liye bola tha uska sport me hai bola thik hai Jake case kro hm kya kre soch rhe kre fir soch rhe ye police ko paisa deke case ghuma n de hm Kya kre kuchh smjh nhi aa rha , hm mummy se bole apna ghar dwar bech kr chlo kahi or ab to yahi soch rhe hai or wo dusro ladki ke sath aram se mauz kr rha hai
Ghar bnana itna aasan nhi jitna bechna hai.
Firbhi aap aaram se sochkar faisla le.
Sir mera naam gourav h meri ek gf h sir pehle vo mujh se khoob achha se baat karti thi bt pichle 6 mahino se vo mujh se phn per achha se baat ni karti h mtlb ab vo itna time nahi deti h or jab ish baat per gussa ho jaata hu toh fir bahut jada call karti h nahi toh wo mujhe chor rahi h or nahi time de rahi h asa m kya karu m bolta hu toh koi na koi bahana bna deti h ki bimar hu mom pass m h ye sab or jab m gussa ho jata hu fir call pr call karti h please sir meri help karo ye sab h kya
Hello Gourav,
Sayad abhi uska man kisi aur kam me adhik lga hai isliye use thoda time dijiye.
Yadi wah apse pyar karti hai to apko thoda bahut time jarur degi.
Life me pyar ke alwa bhi bahut si cheeje hai to yese me yah sb normal cheeje hai.
Tm dono hi glt ho
Hlo sir mai dubai me job krta hun meri gf v dubai me rahti hai apni bua ke sath, ab wo pahle jaise baat nahi krti mujhse kafi change ho gayi hai ,last Friday ko maine use milne ke liye bulaya wo aayi ham dono mile ek dusre se sab kuch aacha raha ham dono ke bech. Aur next time milne ka v plan kr liya.Usne kaha aaj raat ko mujhe mere ghar tak chod ke aao maine kaha thik hai. Metro station se uska ghar 2-3 km ki duri par hai wo boli ham yaha se paidal chalte hai mai kaha jaisa tum kaho mai uske ghar tak chod ke aaya raat ke 9 baje. Agle din subah usne mujhe ek voice msg kiya aur block kr diya maine use pucha kyu block kiya wo boli meri bua ne hame dekh liya hai unho ne mujhe bahut bola wo keh rahe the agar wo ladka dubara dikha to tujhe mai india bhej dungi.
Aur itni si baat pr usne mujhe sabhi jagah se block kr diya maine use dusre num se call kiya to wo bol rahi hai muhje koi baat nahi krni plz.mujhe call mat krna aur call cut kr diya aur aaj 10 din ho gaye usne mera num abhi v block rakha hai.
Mujhe ye samjh ni aata jo ladki khud mujhe milne ke liye bulati thi khud call krti thi wo itni jaldi change kaise hogi. Isne mujhe pahle v batya tha ki india me ek ladka hai jise ye pyar krti hai 3 saal se aur yaha maine use mana kiya tha main tumse koi baat nahi karunga to ye mujhe boli mai tumhe like krti hun ,dhire dhire mujhe v ise pyar ho geya tha mai v ise like krne laga hun but ab ise pata ni kya ho geya jo ek din me change ho gayi mujhe kuch samjh ni aa raha mai kya kru. Mere msg ka reply v nahi deti aur na hi koi mag krti hai mujhe block krke rakha hai sabhi jagah se .aap batao mai mujhe kya krna chahiye
Hello Rohan,
Ho skta hai ladki ki bua ne use kuch yesa bola ho jisse ladki ko tumse bat krna band krna pda ho isliye thoda samay wait kijiye jaldi sb theke ho jayega.
Mne bhi apni life me ek ldke se pyar meri usse 4.5 year bat hui ussi ne muje phle propose kiya mne mna kr diya us time lekin bad me 4 months bad mne propose accept kr liya 1 saal tkk sb acccha cla fir uski life me koi ldki aa gyi vo fake id bnakr usse baate krta rha vh study krta tha m school me pdati thi or tuition pdati thi hm dono ka city me rhne ka khracha sb m hi deti thi morning se afternoon tk school me afternoon se evening tk tuition fir kuch time study m bhi govt job ki tyari kr rhi thi isliye pdai bhi kuch jruri thi lekin m sochti phle iski job jaae us ldke ne fake id bnakr ek ldki se baat krne lga mujse vh whatapp pr baat krta or personal fb I’d se muje block kr diya usko kbhi rupee ki jrurt hoti vh le leta kbhi kbhi shopping bhi m hi krvati usko phn khrab hone pr new phn diya apne se phle uske baare me socha lekin ldka kisi or se pyar krne lga usne muje kbhi nhi btai fir ek bar mne uske phn me fake id dekh li usne phn chin liya or id logout krdi mummy ksm kisi or ki id h mne ek mokka or de diya 4 months ke bad us dusri ldki ki id mere samne aai usne mere bf ke name se I’d bna rkhi mne pucha kon us ldki ne kha m ldki hu mne pucha ldke ke name se id h usne kha mere bf ki h to mne uske bf ki photo maangi usne kisi or ldke ki photo bej di fir usne mujse mere bf ki photo maangi mne bej di usko photo vh boli aapka boyfriends smart usse meri baat kr va do mne kha h bs mera h us ldki ko tklif hui usse sb sch bta diya us time tk mere bf ki job lge hue ko 1 saal huva tha m bhar rhta tha mne usse pucha to bola muj pr trust kro us ldki pr nhi us ldki ne apni or uski chatting Ki photo bej di thi fir mne breakup kr liya 1 month fir mila mujse bola pichli baat bhuke baat krle mne mna kr diya fir vh 2 months bad fir aaya us time mne school chodkr study pr focus kr diya mne usko mna kr diya mne us ldki se baat ki usne kha m usse baat krti hu vh ldka fir se jhut bolne aaya mujse vh hmari friendship ke 3 saal bad tk group d m job lg chuka tha lekin usne kbhi rupee nhi diye ek saal hone bad bola muje acchi job ki tyari krni h m vapis ussi city me aauga or tum mera khrcha de dena us time mne haa kh di lekin job chodne ke ek month phle hi pta cl gya vh mujse pyar nhi krta mne fir use koi contact nhi rkha vhi dobara aaya dobara cheat krne ki sochi but tb tk muje sb smj aaya tha breakup huve bhi 5 months go gye lekin yaad uski aaj bhi aati h lekin trust to ab kbhi nhi krugi us PR us ldke ne bta di ki duniya kesi ya vo kesa h m to yhi chahti jha rhee vo khush rhe jisse uski family khush rhe jindgi m kbhi kisi ko dhokhe me mt rkho ?????????? jhut or dhokhe se nfrt sbko hoti aaj bhi hr hour me uski yaad aati h ki usne ESA kyu nhi ……….adhuri love story rh gyi khushi es baat ki h km se km pta cla ki vh kesa tha uske bdl jaane dukh huva bhut huva 3 months bimar rhi for study continue ki ab itna dukh nhi hota yaad aati h but rona nhi aata……dosto btana aage aae to Kay kru uske sath m
Hello Varsha,
Apki story bahut hi dukhad hai apke dard ko main smjh skta hoon
jb koi apna dhokha deta hai to bahut takleef hoti hai
Main apko sujhav dunga ki aap us ladke se door rhe yadi wah dubara apki life me aata hai to sirf sadi krke sath rhne ki bat kre, Yadi wah apse sadi krega to sayad wah apse sach me pyar krta hoga.
Sath hi uske wapis aane ki ummeed na rakhe apni study par focus kre aur future ko behtr banaye.
Best wishes for your future.
Apki story hamare sath share krne ke liye dhanywad.
Pehali.kahani.bilkul…meri.hi.life. Story. Hai.jese.
Feedback ke liye shukriya
Sir ek lrka h jo bolta h ki mere se pyar krta h .
Actuali bat ye h ki jb mai 12 class pass ki tb mere village me aage pdhai krne ka koi sadhn nhi tha . Us time meri didi ek lrke se pyar krti thi or wo lrka bhi di se pyar krta tha mujhe in dono ke pyar ke bare me pta tha tb mai unko Jiju bolti thi or unse hr ek bat pdhai wala share krti thi or kuchh problem bhi hota to wo mujhe solution dete the mai unhe apna idial manti pr.jb mera 12 class pass krne ke bad mai bhut presan rhti or roti rhti thi ki mujhe age pdhne ke liye shahr jana h pr mere ghar walo ke pas itne paise nhi the ki wo mujhe sahr me pdhae fir mai di ke lover se boli ki mujhe aage pdhai krni mujhe sahar aana h .tb we man gye mujhe sahr bula liye hm dono sath me rhne lge pdhai krne lge . Chuki wo mujhse bre the or mai unhe apna idial bhi manti thi iske wajah mai sari bate share krti thi .pr dhire dhire unko mujhe pyar ho gya pr mujhe nhi tha q ki unhe mai apna Jiju manti thi to mai aisa soch bhi nhi skti pr wo mere sath jabrdasti krne ki kosis krne lge.or mai majbur ho gai mai unhe bhut smjhati ki ye galt h to wo mafi mang lete or fir whi kam kuchh din bad krte the mujhe kuchh samajh me nhi aata tha ki mai kya kru agar mai ghar waps chali jaungi to fir mai aage kuchh nhi kr paungi Gav me rotibelna prega pdhai sb khatm ho jaega.
Mai pdhai ke lalch ke liye sb shti gai wo mere shath physical relationship bhi bnane ki bhut bar kosis kiye .
Wo mera bhut khyal rkhte h koi problem hota h to usko short out kr dete h.mere hr chijo me mera sath dete h age pdhne ke liye or job krne ke liye bhut protsahit krte h.pdhai me bhi bhut madad krte h .
Pr mai kisi bhi lrke se bat krti hu to nhi krne dete h bolte ki ye sb mt kro mai tumse pyar krta hu mai tumse sadi krunga .pr mujhe acsept nhi h ye pyar ye sadi qki unka rista mere di ke sath ho na h mere pure ghar wale di or unke bare me jante h or mere di ki sadi ki bat bhi unke sath krne ke liye mere ghar me chlte h . Pr wo bolte h ki wo mere se pyar krte or ye mujhe manjur nhi qki meri di unse pyar krti h or uska dil mai nhi tor skti .mujhe pta h ki wo mera bhut khyal rkhte h wo ache insan bhi h pr ye nhi smjh me aata ki wo mere sath aisa q kr rhe h mai kisi or lrka se pyar krti hu ye bat unhe pta h to wo mujhe bhrka dete h khte h ki wo lrka tumko kbhi khus nhi rkhega .wo lrka drunker h smoker h galt galt kam krta h .
Mujhe ye sari bate us lrke ne khud phle bta diya h mai nsa krtA hu pr wo rlke se jb mai boli ki nsa krne wala mujhe pasand nhi to wo bola mai chhor dunga nsa krna .ab mujhe smjh me nhi aa rha h ki mujhe jo pasand h mai uske sath rhu ya fir mujhe aage bhi abhi pdhai krna h to inkes sath rhu q ki ye mujhe hmeaa bolte h ki mai chahta hu ki tum age badho kuchh kro mujhe tumhare pyar se nhi mtlb h tum mt kro koi bat nhi pr mere sath rho pdhai kro.
Or wo lrka jise mai pasand krti hu wo bolta h ki tumhara jo mrji aaye wo kro . pdhai krna h to pdhai kro ya Gav me rhna h to Gav me rho mujhe koi presani nhi h tum jisme khus ho mai bhi usme khus hu .
mujhe pdhai krna pasand h jisko lekr di ka jo bf h wo hmesa mujhe protsahit krta h jiske wajah se mai uske bato me aa jati hu ye jante hue bhi mai uske sath rhti hu to wo mere sath galt krta h
Sir plz aap mujhe btaiye ki kon Shi h mai kya kru usi lrka ke sath rhu jo mujhe pdha ra h ya fir mai kya kru mujhe khuchh nhi smjh me aa rha h us problem ke wajah se mai bhut presan hu mai Gav me pri hui hu or mera pdhai bhi band ho rkha h jiske wajah se mera mn nhi lgta h mujhe lgta h ki pdhai krne ke liye mai galt bhi kr lu to fark nhi prta h .
mai kya kru suggest me plz sir.🙏
Hello Shrishti,
Apki story share karne ke liye thank you kyoki apke jaise aur bhi bahut log isi problem ko face kar rhe hai.
Mera sujhav hai aap sbse pahle koi Online kam shuru kare jisse ghar baithe paise kma payegi fir apki paise ki problem solve hogi.
1. Blogging se paise kamaye.
2. Youtube se paise kamaye.
3. Article Writing karke paise kamaye.
4. Dropshipping se paise kamaye.
Jb tk apki earning shuru nhi hoti apko Education loan lekar pdai krni chahiye.
Koi bhi vyakti jo apki majburi ka fayda utha rha ho usse door rho chahe wo apka kitna bhi khyal rakhta ho aur abhi pyar ke chakkr se bahar niklo aur apni family ko sambhalo.
Sir meri problem 4fun app se hai ek ldki mujhe mili thi uska 2 lavel the fir maine usko propose krke dil se pyaar kiya or 15000 hajar rs lga ke uska lavel 16 kr diya mey coll krne ko bolta to wo bat n krne k bahane bata deti mujhe usne 4 mahine me sirf 3 bar wtsap coll kiya 2 minutes bad ki fir papa agye bhai agye bol k coll kt krti ab bol rhi mey frd bnugi apki gf nhi ??or mujhe kuch acha nhi lgta uske siwa 4fun delete kr diya hu ki sayad wo mujhe coll krke apne pass bula le gf bn jaye but 2 mahine se wo online hai 4fun pe or me ofline usko meri yad nhi ati kya ???
Hello Asif,
Yadi ap usko pyar karte hai to uski khushi me kush rhna chahiye.
Pana hi pyar nhi hota, apne pyar ko khush dekhna aur uski kushi me kush rhna sachha pyar hai.
Sir mera v bf h ase o pyr to bht krte h mujhse but ajkl pta ni ky hora h hmare bich smjh hi ni aara msg ignore krte h seen krne k bd v and no reply call p v bht km bate hoti h ab to phle pure din v bt krte the na to km lgta tha unko but ab iska ulta hora h ab m call krti hu to kbhi Mo switch off rhta h to kbhi kisi fr k ps rhta h hmare relationship Ko bilkul v time no dere h vo or jhut v khte h bht mujhse yha tk meri jhuti ksme v kha lete h or m sch Jan k v Anjaan bnk unk jhut p ykin kr leti hu mujhe smjh ni aata m ky kru please help me
Hello Natasha,
Ladko ki life me pyar ke liye ek time aata hai uske bad unhe family ko support krna hota hai jiske liye kam krke paise kamane me focus krna hota hai isliye kam ki wajah se apne pyar ko time nahi de pate isliye adhik tension na lete hai huye tum bhi kam par focus karo aur use bhi kam krne do. Yadi pyar sachha ho to usko din rat bat krne aur roj milne ki jarurt nahi hogi.
Best Wishes for your future.
Sir.. M Ek ldke se bhot pyaar krti thi or Ek time m wo bhi krta h hmre bich sb theek rha Lekin achank se kuch baato ki wajh se hmare bich distance aa gya or shyd tb Mne move on krne K bare m mnn bna liya tha but Fr wo Aaya or hmne Frse Ek muka Diya Ek Dusre Ko.. Lekin kuch baat h jo wo mujse chahta h or m usse nhi de pari ya kh skte h hum ready nhi hu uske liye.. Or Usne uske liye Bhot wait kiya or last K Usne sb khtm krdia.mujy ye Janna h isme hum dono m se kon glt h ???
Hello Riya,
Yadi usne tumse kuch chaha aur wo na milne par sb khatam kar diya to wah tumse pyar hi nhi krta tha
use sirf apse wo cheej chahiye thi jiske liye itne din wait kiya aur jb wah nahi mili to sb khatam kar diya.
Yadi wah pyar krta hoga to wapis aayega aur us cheej ko dubara nahi mangega.
Yadi wah firse aakar wah cheej mangata hai to uske dhokhe se door rhe cheej milne ke bad tumhe chhod skta hai.
Bhai yaar meri girlfriend ne bhi mujhe dhokha diya hai mera 5 saal ka relationship hai aur 4 mahine se wo kisi dusre se lag rhi thi usne sab hadh paar kar li uske sath mujhe pata chala to usne use chhod diya ab maafi mangti hai mujhse galti sudharne ki baat karti h lekin me usse bahut pyar karta hu aur uska ye kiya hua karm andar se mujhe todta hai mujhe harwaqt uske saath rehne me ghutan feel hoti hai mujhe kya karna chahiye bro kuchh salah do wo to sab karne ke liye taiyar hai kehti hai me kya karu is rishte ko pehle jaisa karne ke liye bhaai hum kya karen koi upay ho to batao mere andar se us ladke ke saath so chuki hai wo ye baat nhi nikal rhi hai 5 mahine ho gaye hai is baat ko relation abhi bhi chal rha h
Hello Kuldeep,
Galti insan se hoti hai isliye ek bar maaf karke purani bato ko bhulkar riste ko aange le jana sahi rhega.
rahi bat dusre ladke ke sath smbndh bnane ke to usse koi frk na pdta bs use achhe se smjhao ki yesa dubara na ho wrna fir riste ko bachana sambhav na hoga.
yadi ladki viswas krne layak hai aur usse galti hui hai to use maf karo aur apne riste ko khushi khushi aange le jao.
Yr jisse aap pyar krte ho usko taklif dene ke bare me kabhi aap sochoge hi nhi
Aur han agar aap ne pyar me apna 100% diya hai fir bhi dhokha de to 2nd chance do aur fir bhi wo nhi sudhare to use chhod do wo aap ke layak hi nhi jo itna pyar krne pr aap ko dhokha de rha hai to kal aap apni puri life uske sath bitane ke sapne dekh rhe ho agar shadi ke bad agar wo aisa kregi to bardasht nhi kr paoge esi liye sahi yhi hai ki use chhod do
Time aane pr use samajh aayega aur jab tak samajh aayega tab tak aap bahut aage nikal gye hoge palat kr bhi nhi dekhoge uske bad uske pas pachhtane ke alawa koi option nhi rhega
Hello Abhishek Singh,
Apka sujhav bahut achha hai.
Share karne ke liye Thank you.
Sir ek ladki se bht hadd se jada pyaar karta hu prr sir usne aaj usne itne bahane bazzi ke hai kya hai btau jb vo mssg kare mjhe reply karna hota hai aur agr mene kar diya toh sir uske online class aur kbhi uske mummy aagye papa bola rhe hai kbhi kuch kbhi kuch sir itne bahane banate hai me kya hai bolu aur sir mjhe hai blame karte hai tu mere life barbaad kar rha hai agr mene call kar diya ya frr koi kaam hua aur bo mssg karte hai agr mssg nhi kiya toh ego ye sb aur pta nhi kitne ladko se baat karte hai mene puch liya kon hai toh bhaii bta te hai aur mene mna kar diya toh bol te hai tere soch gande hai kya karu sir mera mood off hai jiss pyaar karo bo esa kare toh bht dard hota hai insaan toot jata hai andr hai andr ?????????
Hello Vicky,
Yadi aap usse pyar karte hai to uspe viswas rakho kyoki viswas ke bina na to pyar hota hai na riste bnte hai.
Fir bhi yadi wah dhokha deti hai to uski kismat kharab hogi jo tumhare jaisa pyar krne walo kho degi.
Aap bs viswas rkho aur jitna ho ske life ko enjoy karo.
Hello sir,
M bhot takleef me hu bhot pareshan hu 6 saal se kisi k sath true relationship me hu bhot pyar karta hu usse hmesha se..kbhi use chhodne khayal nhi layi dimag me darta tha bhot usko khone se b..or vo b mujse bhot pyar karta h shuru se bt rishte me thodi nok jhok to hoti hi h ab vo inse irritate hone lga tha.to brkup ki baate boldeta tha hmesha.bt bad me sorry b bolta tha jb usko feel hota tha ki muje brkup k naam se hi bhot hurt hota h.bt usne bhot bar muje kbhi b chhod chhod k chala gya h..maine har bar kaise na kaise usko mnake vps relationship bchaya h..bt bhot takleef hori h jb vonaise karta h fir b sb bhul jata tha kyuki usse pyar karta tha bhot jada or b karta tha.bt prani kyu irritate jine lga or maine bhot efforts lgaye is relation ko bchalo k liye bt parso unse fir se vohi kiya ek dm se sb khatam kardiya apne ghr btadiya uske ghr vale bilkul ready nhi h uske ghr valo ne mujse bat ki bola ki chhod de isko koi hm kbhi nhi manage…be mere liye bhot mushkil hora j aise uske bina jeena muje heart pain hone lgta h jb b brkup hota h or jb tk sab sahi ni hota vo heart paintheek nhi hota bhot emotionally weak hu m..khana b nhi khaya jara parso se sirf dvaiya khayi h tbyt bigad gyi totally….or sbse bdi bat ye h ki usne mujse shadi krli thi chup k se…tb tk to kbhi brkup ki bat b ni aati thi hmare beech..or us shadi k mere pas koi prove ni kyuki hmne kbhi kisi ko kuch ni btaya ghr pta na chal is dar se to ab kya ho skta h us shadi ko kaise bchau m..usne to apne hath jhadliye mujse..plzzz mine btao kya karu m.koi b tarika btao usko muje ek karne ..I can’t live without him..suicide karne ka mind me aata h bs uske bina isliye muje uske sath hi rehna h plzzz koi tarika btao m usko mna mna k thakk gya vo nhi manra..
Hello Gouri,
Yadi apko lgta hai ki apka boyfriend bhi apse love krta hai aur apko life time khush rakhne ki kosis karega to aap sbse pahle apni family se bat karo aur unko mnao. Yadi apki family man gyi to sb theek ho skta hai.
Family ko mnane ke bad ldke ko mnao aur yadi wah ghar walo ki wajah se nahi manta hai to family walo se bolkar uske ghar walo se bat karo
yadi fir bhi koi nahi manta hai to aap police ki help le skti hai.
Call kro aap ko upay batate hai
Hello Suraj,
Hm koi upay nahi btate hai bs post ke dwara ek dusre se bat karte hai
Bhai aaj kal ka pyar sala fake hai koi n koi cheat karat hai kitna bhi ksm waade kha lo sab juthe hai koi nhi hot hi kisi ka koi nhi jitna jaldi ye baat samjh jaaye sab utna hi kum roega
mujhe lagta hai ki wo kisi aur ladkiyon se baat karta hai mai janti hou wo mujhse pyar karta hai maine feel kiya hai ab mai uska dil jeetna chahti hou mujhe advise dein mai kya karun
Hello Adiya Noor,
Uske dil ko jeetne ka ek hi tareeka hai uske sath pyar se rho aur usko life me kabhi dhokha na do.
Bhai mere jaan se jada pyar kya tha use par oooo kise aur ladke se baat karti hai ni. Busy batta hai btaw na mai kya kru uske shat me…… ?
Wait kruga aap ka Ripley ka,….. ?
Hello Sanju,
Dost agar wah kisi or se bat karti hai to usse puchho ki wah kya chahti hai aur yadi usse pyar karti hai to use chhodo.
Aur yadi wah tumse pyar karti hai to usko bolo ki tumhe dhokha na de aur khushi khushi life enjoy karo.
Yadi wah sach nahi btati aur us ladke se bat karti hai aur tumse bhi bat karti hai to usse bat krna band karo.
relationship k bare me pata chala to wo mere mumy se shadi k liye baat ki wo mujhse bohat pyar karta hai par mai usko bohat takleef di hou wo meri harkaton se pareshaan hai mai us k dil par se utar gaie aur mujhe lagta hai ki wo kisi dusri se baat karta
isliye maine use azmaya yeh keh k mai pregnenent hou jab wo ye suna kehne laga tum pareshan na ho mai tumhare sath hou mai tumhe tablets lakar dunga phir maine use bata diya k mai pregnent nai hou phir jab mere mumy ko humare relationship k bare me
mera relationship 1 half year se hai mera bf mere se bohat pyaar karta hai hum phisical b hue hai par mai apne past ki wajah se bohat galtiyan ki hai par waha har mujhe mauka diya hai mai samajti ki waha mujhe sx k liye use karta hai isiliye mai ne
Aslamwalekum? ?good luck ???yrr itna acha husband mila apko ?
Sar mere saath v aisa hua six years ka r relation ship me thi aur wo mujhe dhokha de ke kisi aur se love karti thi mai pahuchta tha toh bolti hai thi nhi aisa koi nhi hai tere siva jab mujhe pata laga uska bf ke baare me toh wo mere se rishta hi khatm kar do boli Jo hai wanhi hai kya kare sar
Mujhse Ek glti Ho gyi h
Mera bf ko Ye psnd nahi ki main kisi or ldke se baat Karun .
Main kvi usse breakup ni krna chahti hoon isliye kvi uske samne kisi ldke se baat ni kiye.
But main dusra facebook I’d bna ke apne coaching ke Ldke Se as a friend baat ki jb mujhe pachtaba hua to apne bf ko Sara baat bata Di, but Aisi glti main Pehle v kr chuki hoon.
Mera tarika glt tha but intention glt ni tha.
Main apne bf Se bahut pyar krti hoon or use khona ni chahti or wo v mujhse bahut pyar krta hai isliye Ye glti jaanne ke baad v wo Bahut hurt hua h but mujhe chhod ni pa rha.
Main janti hoon main glt hoon baar baar Ek hi glti ni krni chahiye thi mujhe.
kyä mere bf ko mujhe maaf kr dena chahiye ??
Main uske bina reh v ni skti kya Karu ??
Mere bf ke liye kya sahi hoga wo mujhe chhod ke ni reh paega or sath v rehne me ghutan ho rha h use.
Is situation me hm dono ko kya krna chahiye??
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Hello Prachi,
Ek bar galti ki usne maf kiya lekin tumne dusri bar wahi galti ki hai
iska mtlb hai tum galti nhi kar rhi yah jan buchkar kar rhi aur tumhe usse koi pyar nahi hai.
Tumhare Boyfriend ko tumhe chhod dena chahiye kyoki yesi ladki ke sath rhna apna jeevan barbad karna hai.
Thank you
Hello sir me jab Bangalore me job krti thi to mujhse ek ladke ne frdship kiyam or phir pyar hua. Humne physical v hua. PR ab jab se me apne ghr ayi hun or woh v apne ghr Gya PR ab woh mujhse bat nhi kr raha bolta h me tere sath time pas kr RHA tha boliye me Kay kru
Hello Nisha,
Yadi wah apke sath time pas kar rha tha to usse door rhna hi theek hai.
Aur jhooth bolke physical hua to aap uske khilaf police case karke usko sja bhi dila skti ho.
Ab marji apki apko usko yese hi chhodna hai ya fir sja dilana hai.
Agr vo police case karti h to kya higa aage kya police help karegi?
Or karegi to kaise ?
Hello Gouri,
Police help karegi lekin uske liye bahut paresani ka samna krna hoga.
Kyoki bina saboot ke kuch nahi karti.
मुझे आपका पोस्ट अच्छा लगा ओर पुरानी यादें जागृत हो गई?? ।हमारा प्यार । आपकी कहानी से mel खाती हैं। और आपका पोस्ट पढ़ने के बाद मुझे वो मेरी gf याद आने लगी । अपने आशु वो को रोक नहीं पाया मैं ??क्यू कि मैं उससे बहुत प्यार करता था। आज वो मुझे छोड़कर चली गई। अब वापस नहीं आयेगी।? दिल मेरा टूटने के बाद लड़की से बात करना और किसी लड़की के रिलेशन शिप बनाना छोड़ दिया , आज मेरा किसी से रिलेशन शिप नहीं है 4 साल हो गए किसी से रिलेशनशिप नहीं बनाया। TQ so much mere dost acha lga ??????????? मंगल सेठ फैजाबादी का नमस्कार आपको
Hello Mangal Seth,
Hme khushi hai apko hamari story pasand aayi aur isse ap apne pyar ko firse yad kar paye.
Thank you
Hi, maine apka story pdha but I feel app duniya ko bht wrong message de rahe. You love someone that doesn’t make a sense that they will also love you back in the same manner. Agr ldki ne apko dhoka diya for someone else to chor to na bhai kyun dena kisiko second chance kya zindagi aur maut hume second chance deti hai jiski jo phitrat hai voh kbhi nhi badal skte uski voh nature hai thats the reason everyone is unique in their own way. Aapne bola shaadi kr lo aur zindagi bhar thrpao really!! Just think of it shaadi koi khel hai shaadi ek aisa rishta hai jaha log peacefully ek sath rehna chaate hai ek relationship me trust or compatibility sbse important hoti hai jb aisa kuch hoga hi nhi voh apse alag hogi chup rahegi kuch share krne se daregi kyun kyunki usko pyarr ki smjh nhi thi isliye aree let karma fuck her life aap kon hote ho ushe tkleef dene wale. Just think aap job se wapss aoge kuch share krna chaoge apne wife se kuch punchna chaoge apko kisi baat ka tension hoga who will there for you at that time jb wife hi apko na smjhe and the most important kalko apko koi bimari ho aur apki wife hi apka khyal na kre tb kya kroge???!! So think just because usne apko dhoka diya apne ek aisa solution nikala jishe aap dono khush nhi rhenge just move on yrr ushne dhoka diya usko chor do just make a standard for yourself because aap khudki life to kharab karoge or if by mistake kalko apk bchhe huye then unki bhi life problem me hogi kyunki ghr me aap dono to ldte rahoge bchhe ko na ek acha education milega na kbhi pyarr jo aap dono se milna chahiye. Just think apk father ne same chiz ki hoti apki maa k sath tb aapko mnn nhi krta baap hone se acha baap na hota jo maa ko except krne k baad bhi jalil krta hai kya pata bhurape me ushe apse nafrat ho jaye just think of it. Mai to yeh bolungi just move on aur koi aise life partner k sath jeena chahiye jo mere sath hasker 2 pal yaad chain se rahe na ki nafrat ho aur sirf shk ho.
Hello Riya,
Yes you are right we can move on but yadi lover se ek bar galti hoti hai aur wah apse sorry bolke firse ek new life shuru krna chahta hai to use ek chance jarur dena chahiye.
Sadi krke jindgi bhar tadpane wali bat Gusse me likh di thi jisse sach me galat msg jaa rha hai isliye article me jaldi sudhar kar diya jayega.
Thank you for your feedback and keep visiting.
bahut sahi bat boli hai aapne yaar i agreee with you ki us se saadi karke hum jindgi jhand kyu kare apni bhi aur uski bhi is se aacha hota hi ki ushe uski haal par chhod de
Jo larki ak baar dhokha de sakti hai dusre ke sath kafi dino se s*x aur baate ker leti hai woh larki se saadi karne ke baad vi woh larki dhokha degi
Ya Jo larki ak baar dhokha deti hai woh dubara vi dhokha degi plz reply me to all
Hello Rames,
Jo ladki ek bar dhoka de wah bar bar dhoka degi yesa jaruri nahi hai.
Aur Sadi ke bad bahut km yese ladke aur ladkiya hote jo partner ko dhokha de isliye chinta na kare sadi ke bad ye sb problem theek hone ke chance adhik hote hai.
Mai yek larki se do sal relationship me thha . Kuchh time hi badhh mujhe lgne laga ki ye kisi or se v bat karta hai mene fb se pata kiya to pta chla ki uske ghar k pas k hi larka se uska bohot pehle se relationship hai ..jab usse mene puchh to batai ha thha but ab mai usse bat nhi karti
Mene usi time bola agar bat karte ho to bata do mai chhorne k liye tayr hu avi but chit kroge to hmse bura koi nhi hoga ..kiuki hme dhokha pasnd nhi hai .usne mujhebbola yesa kbi nhi hoga fir hmlog bat krne lge fir kuchh time badhh o mujhe time kam dene lgi bate I’m hone lga bolta bat kro to bahane banati thhi hmesa online rehti but reply nhi deti jldi…mai bohot hurt huaa fir uske bf se puchha to. Us dono ka n*de pic mujhe veja bola dekh ye tujhe chutiyaya bana rhi hai …mujhe bohot gussa aagya ab mai kya kru. Mere pas v hm dono ke n*de video call k pic hai bohit sare. Aap btao kya kre ab eska
Hello Shivesh Kumar,
Yadi wah ladki apko aur us ladke ko dhokha de rhi hai to usse door rho.
Uski sabhi photos aur videos delete karo kyoki kisi ladki ki ijjat kharab krna achhi bat nahi hai chahe wah kitni bhi dhokhebaj kyo na ho.
Me ak larki se time pass ker Raha tha uski family aur woh larki sab Saadi Karne ke liye raji tha kiyoki woh sab garib hai is wajah se aur larki nati thi Kali thi is wajah se Saadi nahi hoti thi aur garib vi tha to me yese hi time pass ker Raha tha to me recharge vi ker deta tha us larki ko rupiya vi de deta tha woh larki ki family market me dukan lagati thi to woh akele dukan
per rahti thi to dusra cast ke larka isi ke bagal me dukan lagata tha to dono ak dusre se baat Karne laga aur ak dusre kafi baar physical vi huaa per mujhse vi baat karti thi jab woh call karti thi tabhi warna me nahi karta tha baat na massage woh Delhi ki thi to uske family me bahut pasand tha aur larki ko vi me Thora amir tha to uske family wale ko lagta tha mujhse baat ker rahi hai aur me Delhi se bahut dur dusre state me villege me rahta tha is wajah se usko azadi ghumne milti thi kiyoki uske family ko pata tha me yaha nahi hu aur mujhse jab baat ker hi rahi hai to dusre ke sath Galt nahi karegi aur me kabhi call ya massage nahi karta tha kiyoki mujhe us se Saadi nahi karne ka man tha lekin fikar hoti thi uska koi galti per me gusaa hota tha lekin me jayada dhiyaan nahi deta tha isi baat ka fayada Dekh ker dusre cast ke larke ke sath roj physical hoti thi woh larka larki ki parosi me hi tha aur woh akela rahta tha din me do baar tin baar Tak physical hoti thi aur larki mobile me s*x* video vi dekhti thi karib ak saal Tak aur is bich woh badal vi gai thi mujhse sahi se baat nahi karti thi hamesa gusaa me baat karti thi to mujhe ye lagta tha jaldi saadi nahi ker Raha hu na isliye yesa ker rahi hai isliye me vi baat nahi karta tha jab me Delhi aaya uska mobile check kiya call details nikala to pata Chala tab us larki se pucha to sab such such bol di kiyoki me us se kaha tha sab such bolegi tab hi saadi karunga me usko Delhi dhokha dene hi aaya tha me apna Kam se aaya tha usko jhut bola tha saadi karne aaya hu ye sab janne ke baad to woh larki pagal ho gai 10 din Tak me vi physical huaa uske sath aur ak din us ke Ghar me hi me pakra gaya me khud ko bachane ke liye woh larki ki saari baat uske family ko bol Diya dusre cast ke sath woh Jo ki thi fir woh larki mere bare me apne family ko bol di ye sab janne ke baad ye mujhe dilasa dilaya aur ye vi kiya hai mere sath 10 din Tak s*x to me mobile me gandi photos vi liya tha larki ke sath to larki bol di to Mera mobile vi le liya uske family wale ne aur mara vi fir vi aa gaya apne room per tab woh larki bahut roi aur uske family sab bol Raha hai saadi ker lo plz saadi ker lo woh larki vi bahut roti hai aur Saadi ke liye bolti hai to me uske family ko bola 5 lakh rupiya dega to uske family walo ne 3 lakh dene taiyaar hai uske family sahi nahi hai us larki ke Abba daru pita hai kamata nahi hai aur uske Bhai sab vi daru pita hai ak rupiya vi nahi deta hai Ghar me 3 Bhai hai sab apna kamata hai khata hai larki ko ghumata hai kisi ko fikar hi nahi hai Meri behn ki itni Umar ho gai hai Saadi ker du itna janne ke baad vi koi fikar nahi hai sab apna apna masti ker Raha hai aur uski ammi ki boli hamesa gusaa me hi niklti hai bahut kharab boli uski beti dusre ke sath yesa ki fir vi mujhe kiu tension ho Raha hai karib 4 mahine ho gaya is baat ko fir vi uski dhokha yaad aati hai aur us larki me chahta hu woh baat karti rahe Saadi nahi karu lekin mujhe bahut tension hoti hai bahut Kam me man nahi lagta hai na khane me na nahane me na kuch karne me usi ki yaad aati rahti hai aur uske dhokha ke baat aur man karta hai me woh larka ko call laga ke gali du jab me Galt kiya to Mera mobile le li aur mara vi uska family us larka ko kuch nahi kaha koi ak word vi nahi bola mujhe gali vi Diya uske family wale ne aur apni izazat bachane ke liye us larka se Saadi vi nahi ker sakti hai na kisi ko bol sakti hai Mera man karta hai me sabko bol du mujhe bahut tension hota hai Kya karu me plz reply
Hello Rohit,
Sabse pahle to jb aap usse pyar nahi karte the to use sath time pas krna galat tha.
Yadi wah ladki kisi se bat karti hai ya physical relation rakhti hai to apko usse koi mtlb nhi hona chahiye tha kyoki ap usse pyar nahi karte the.
Uske parivar ne apko aur ladki ko range haantho pakda to us situation me koi bhi parivar gali deta aur marta bhi to uski tesnsion na lo.
Yadi usse bat kiye bina achha nhi lgta aur lgta hai ki usse pyar karte ho to hi uske parivar se jake bat karo aur us ladki ke sath sadi karke khush rho.
Agar aap usse pyar nhi karte to us ladki aur uske parivar ko bhulkar ek nyi shuruaat karo aur ab kisi bhi ladki ya insan ke sath kisi bhi tarah ka time pass mt krna isse apka aur us insan ka bahut nuksan hota hai.
Yah life hai aur duniya me yese chhoti chhoti bate hoti rhti hai itni tension lene ki jarurt nhi hai.
Chill karo apne future par dhyan do.
Thank You.
Mai 1 ladke se bachpen se pyar krti hun jab mai 7th class me padhti thi. 1 saal pahle uski government job lg gai tb se mujhse ignor krne lga wo lakin mai fir bi uske peeche pdi rahi quki mai usse bht pyar krti thi lakin ab jaker pta chala ki wo insan bht ladkiyo se baat krta tha physical relationship the uske ladkiyon ke sath lakin kuch nai pta ishke baare me aur juth bolta rahta tha mai us pr bht bharosa krti thi lakin ab uske saare juth saamne aa gye mere. kya karun uske sath samjh nai aa raha sbse bdi baat maine pucha usse toh bola maine koi juth nai bola koi dhoka nai lakin such yahi h usne dhoka dia jis ladki se baat krta tha usse maine khud bat ki usne mujhe proof bi dia. mai bs ab ishko nai chodne waali ye ishse hr dhoke ka badla lungi. mai ishsee hi shadi karungi Chahe jo ho jaye. kya mai Sahi hun.
Hello Mam,
Yadi wah apse pyar karta hai to aapko usse sadi karni chahiye.
Lekin yadi wah sirf apko dhokha de rha tha to apko usse door rhna chahiye kyoki usse sadi karke aap khush nahi rah paogi.
To sbse pahle yah pta kare ki wah aaj bhi apse pyar krta hai ya sirf dhokha de rha.
Yadi wah apse pyar krta hai to ap uske sath sadi karke khush rhegi aur jo dhokhe usne diye uske liye v wah sharminda rhega.
Apki story share karne ke liye THANK YOU.
Please mujhe ye btao ki ek pgl ldka 5 month phle usse hm bt krte the or wo shdi tak ki bt KR Lia or maine ha bhi bol Dia but Mai sahi se smjh nhi pa rhi thi ldka kaisa h main apni frnd Ko uski pic dikhai sbne mujhe bola ldka sahi nhi dur rho mujhe LGA sahi h maine Apne boy dost ki help se usse picha chhodne Ko bola to wo meri help Kia or Usk STH meri STH ki pic bhi h or mere boy dost k STH bhi pic Chali jisse wo mera picha chhor skte but wo pglo ki trh mere piche PDA h Mai use pyr nhi krti hu maine no. Bhi block kr Dia h mgr hr br no. Kahi na Kahi se PA jata jiski wjh se wo mujhe msg krta h TM meri ho but mujhe Usk in hrkto se nfrt ho gai h islie mujhe maine police case KR Dia or by court ka Chali gai h to wo police Ko bol rha h mera physical relationship h but Aisa nhi h maine medical test nhi krwya h but in hi SB chijo ki wjh se wo meri life brbd krna chahta h to maine court me Aisa kya bolu jisse Mai us pgl ldk se picha chuda saku pls meri help kro ap SB achha reason do uski wjh se court meri trf se faisla le or wo ldka meri life se hmesha k lie chla jye
Hello Jyoti,
Yadi apne pahle usko pyar ki bate aur sadi ki bate ki hai to bhi koi bat nhi.
Kyoki yadi aap usse pyar nhi karti koi apse jabarjasti sadi nhi kar skta.
Aap court me sb sach btao aur bolo ki main usse pyar nhi karti aur usse sadi nahi karna chahti.
Hello sir,
Mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu. 2 sal tak to sab thik chal raha tha but ab vo puri tarah badal chuki hai. Kahti hai mujhe ab pahle jaisa feel nahi hota, ab pahle jaisa bat karne ka man nahi karta.
Jab maine reason puchha to kahti ki pahle aap mujhe time nahi dete the ab mera man nahi karta hai. humlog physical relationship bhi banaye hai in do saalo me. Maine sirf usse itna kaha ki rat me ladki se bat na kiya kar to kahti hai ki karungi. Mujhe koi bandhkar rakhe mujhe ye pasand nahi hai. Wo ek ladke se bat karti hai sayad aaj mujhe us ladke ke status per iski aur uske dono ki pic dekhi jab maine kaha ki mujhe bataya q nahi ki tum log mandir gaye the ghumne to kahti hai ki mai q batau aapko mere bharosa nahi kya isi vajah se aaj maine us ladke ke bare me usse kafi galat bol diya gali bhi de di us ladke ko aur use bhi bol diya jo karna hai karo jaha muh marna hai maro gusse me ye sab kah diya to usne mujhe bahut galat bola aur aaj phone karne par kahti hai ki mai ab tumhare sath nahi rah sakti tum mere character ke bare me galt bolte ho aur boli jab aap bol hi rahe ho to mai aaj se tumhe chhod rahi hu aur mai ab kisi aur se relationship kar lungi kahti hai ki mujhe call mat karna.
Ab mai kya karu mai use kah raha hu ki aisa mat karo mujhe mat chhodo to vo kah rahi hai ki mai ek bar decision le liya hai ab nahi badlungi mai usse bahut pyar karta hu mai use nahi khona chahta hu mai kya karu mujhe ajeeb se thaught aa rahe hai mujhse kuchh galat n ho jaye plz help me plzzz
Hello Shiva,
Aapki story share karne ke liye Thank you.
Hamara Sujhav hai aap apne kam par dhyan do aur jarurt ke waqt me uski madad karo.
Yadi wah apse pyar karti hogi to kisi or se pyar nhi karegi. Aur yadi wah kisi or se relation bnati hai to fir apko usko pane ke liye life me achha paisa kamana hoga, kuch achha krna hoga tabhi wah lotkar apki life me aayegi.
Sujhav : Life me pyar ka aana jana lga rhta hai lekin kuch samay bad sb theek hota hai isliye tension me kuch galat kam krna apke aur apke parivar ke liye nuksan dayak ho skta hai.
Life me kuch behtar krne ki kosis karo wah jarur apke pas aayegi.
Aapke pyar ke liye best wishes.
Hello.. Main ek ladke se bohot pyar karti hu usk sth relation ko 4 saal ho Gye h … Pr hmara bohot jhgra hota h.. Hr baat reason yahi hota h ki JB nhi vo kisi dost k saal hota h to mujhe bhot ignore krta h.. Uska ye ignore Karna mujhe bardast nhi hota.. Isk baad m use bohot galat2 word bol DETI hu.. Use koi fark nhi pdta bs baat krna band kr deta h….. Isk baad mere bohot manane rone se bhi nhi Manta… Lekin bat ho jati hai fir….
Ish baar bhi esai hua h… Aur ish baar mene gusse m usk dost ko bhi galt sabd bol diye h…. Reason yahi tha ki dost k sth rehne k baad ignore krna…. Maine bohot bar maafi maangi… Use bht khusi h mere rone se…. Baat nhi krega bola
M bohot psreshan hu .. Bilkul pagalpn sa lgta h.. Pr mere dil vahi h aur m use nhi khona chahti… Hr bar lout kr aata h vese to… Pr ab Kya Karna chaiye mujhe.. Plz help me……
Hello Diksha,
Yadi koi apne dost ke sath hai to uske sath busy hona theek hai aur jb wah apke sath hota hai to apke sath busy hota hai.
Yese me aap usko galat shbd bologi to ladai to hogi hi aur yadi bar bar ek hi bat par ldai hogi to bahut bdi problem ho skti hai.
Thode din shant rho fir apne lover ko mnao.
Jb wah maan jaye to dubara use galat shbd na bolna.
Yadi wah apko time na bhi de tb bhi usko galat shabd mt bolna.
Yadi wah apse pyar krta hai to apko thoda bahut time jarur nikal lega.
Apni story hamare sath share karne ke liye thank you.
Me ak larki se 3 saal se piyaar karta tha lekin woh larki kisi aur cast ke larke ke sath s*x ker li aur mere recharge se usko raat ver call karti thi video call vi karti thi aur uske sath sirf 4 mahine me hi sab kuch ker li aur ab woh mujhse Saadi karna chahti hai bahut roti hai roj bolti hai Saadi ker lo uski family ko vi sab kuch pata hai uski family vi sab bolte hai saadi ker lo me Kya karu plz reply me.
Hello Mohan Das,
Yadi aap us ladki se pyar karte hai to apko usse sadi kar leni chahiye.
Lekin yaad rahe yadi aap usse sadi karte hai to bite huye kal ki wajah se bhavishay me ldai na ho.
Thank you
SIR
mughe ek ladki pasand vo mere mohle me hi rhti aate jaate hm ek dusre ko dekhte h kya m usko propose kr skta hu ya phn number mang skta hu 11 class me h vo
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Hello Santosh,
Yadi app usko pasand karte ho to usko apne dil ki bat bataye.
Hamari taraf se apko best wishes.
Meri v jindgi me 2016 me ek ladki aayi thi
Hm dono 4 saal me physical bhi huye
Phle 3 saal me to hm ek dusre se behad pyar krte the
Saath jeene marne ksm khayi hmne
Mummy Papa ki ksm khayi hmne
Mandir me ksm khayi hmne
Yha tk ki mene manng v bhari hai
Apne khoon se
Pr wo 1 saal se ab puri badal chuki hai
Uska khna hi hm family ke liye jite hai
Isliye sb phle ki baate bhul jao
Aur mujhe nhi lgta hai isme koi majburi hai uski
Kuki dono ki family nhi menegi hmari saddi ke liye hme suru se hi malum tha
Hmne suru me hi tay kiya tha ki aur hmesa is baat ja zikr krte the ek dusre se ki agr hmari family nhi manegi to bhaag jayenge hm dono
Mai ek private job krta hu accha kama v leta hu
Par ab wo meri rhi hi nhi esa behave krti hai mere sath
Baat to krti hai mujhse par wo pyar to khi nhi nzr aata hai
Uska khna hai meri saadi hogi bss bhuk jaiyega hmko
Meri condition esi ho gyi hai ki mai na use bhul pata hu aur
Na use Kisi ke haath me jate huye dekh sakta hu
Kuki mai ab v uss bhot pyar karta hu
Mujhe kya krni Chahiye plzz
Bta dijiye
Use mere rone se v frk nhi prta ab
Plzzz apki advice chahiye
Hello Sourav,
Yadi aap apne pyar se sachcha pyar krte hai aur achha kmaa bhi lete hai to ek bar apni family se bat kare aur unko sadi ke liye manaye.
Yadi apki family maan jati hai to apke family wale ladki walo se bat kar skte hai.
Lekin sbse pahle apko apni family se bat karni hogi yahi is problem ka ek solution hai.
Pyar se aaram se soch smjhkar problem ko solve krne ki kosis kare baki jo hoga wo bhagwan ki marji.
मैं भी एक लड़की से प्यार करता हूं वह लड़की मेरे दोस्त से प्यार करती है लेकिन मुझे आज तक नहीं पता था 7 दिसंबर 2020 रात 2:00 बजे मुझे उसने फोन लगाया और मुझसे बोली यार तुम मेरा पीछा छोड़ सकते हो मैंने बोला क्यों तो उसने बोला कि मैं किसी और से प्यार करती हूं मैंने बोला मैंने तो तेरे साथ सेkस कर लिया है और सब कुछ कर लिया है तूने उसके साथ क्या-क्या किया मुझे बता
तो उसने मुझे बताया कि मैंने अभी तक वह टच भी नहीं किया मैंने उसका नाम पूछा तो उसने मेरे ही दोस्त का नाम बताया उसी रात 3:00 बजे मैंने अपने दोस्त को फोन किया मेरा दोस्त सो रहा था बोला कि भाई इतनी रात को फोन क्योंकि किया क्या परेशानी है तुझे
तो मैंने उससे पूछा कि भाई तू किसी लड़की से प्यार करता है तो उसने मुझसे बोला नहीं भाई मैं किसी लड़की से प्यार नहीं करता लेकिन चार पांच लड़कियों से बात करता हूं फोन पर टाइम पास करने के लिए लेकिन दिल से किसी से प्यार नहीं करता मैं उससे बोला कि भाई उन चार पांच लड़कियों के नाम बताएगा मुझे तो उसने चार पांच लड़कियों के नाम गिनाए मुझे लेकिन उन नामों मे उस लड़की का नाम नहीं था तो मैंने उससे पूछ ही लिया कि भाई वह लड़की है उससे तो प्यार करता है तो उसने मुझे बताया कि भाई तुझे किसने बताया मैं बोला कि भाई जितना मैं पूछ रहा हूं उतना जवाब दे तो उसने बोला नहीं भाई मैं उससे प्यार नहीं करता हां लेकिन वह मेरे पीछे पड़ रही है मैं फोन पर बात करता हूं बस तो मैंने उससे बोला कि भाई मेरे लिए उस लड़की को छोड़ सकता है तो उसने कहा हां छोड़ दूंगा उसने तुरंत उस लड़की का नंबर ब्लॉक किया हर जगह से और मुझसे बोला कि भाई तू उस लड़की से प्यार करता है मैंने बोला हां भाई मैं उस लड़की से बहुत प्यार करता हूं उसके लिए मर भी सकता हूं उसने वह लड़की छोड़ दी
तो भाइयों मुझे पूछना यह है
कि मैं उस लड़की से प्यार करता हूं और वह लड़की मेरे दोस्त से प्यार करती है उस लड़की ने मुझे ब्लॉक कर दिया है और मेरे दोस्त ने उस लड़की को ब्लॉक कर दिया है और वह लड़की मेरे दोस्त को नए-नए नंबरों से कॉल कर रही है और मेरा दोस्त उसके सभी नंबरों को ब्लैक लिस्ट में डाल रहा है तो मैं ऐसा क्या करूं जो वह लड़की मुझसे प्यार करें
सच में उस लड़की के बिना मैं जी नहीं पाऊंगा
प्लीज दोस्तों मेरी कुछ हेल्प करो मुझे सपोर्ट करो
अगर कोई भी मेरी समस्या का समाधान करेगा मैं उसका एहसान जिंदगी भर नहीं भूलूंगा
राम राम दोस्तों
हेलो पुनीत
यदि वह लड़की तुम्हे प्यार नहीं करती तो उसको बोलो की कम से कम दोस्त बनके साथ रहे
और उसके साथ दोस्त बनके साथ रही जितनी अधिक उसकी मदद कर सको उसको खुश रखो, उसकी ख़ुशी में खुश रहो जल्दी लड़की को तुम्हारा प्यार समझ आएगा और वह तुम्हारे पास जरूर आएगी
इसके अतिरिक्त किसी का प्यार प्राप्त करने का कोई रास्ता नहीं है
Bhai agar aisa dost mil jaye to laude pr chade aisi ladkiya puri life single hi thik hun
Hello sir
Hamari relationship ko 5 year ho gye hai , kafi time hmlogo ne sath bitaya,usne shaadi k bahot se khawab dikhaye promises v ki Mere sath physical hua ye sab kuch janne m bad v uske ghar vale kahi or shadi kra rahe hai ,mene usko shadi mna karne ko kaha bat karne ko kaha to mujhe saf saf na keh di or kaha bhool jao mujhe sir kya police ki help se me usse shadi kar sakta hu ..?? Jisse mai usse apni value bta saku sir isme mai kese kaam karu or kese help mil sakti he mujhe
Hello Rajesh,
Yadi ladki ki marji uske ghar walo ki marji se sadi karne me hai to aapki help police nahi karegi aur apko bhi apne pyar ki khushi me kush rhna chahiye.
Yadi wah apse sadi nahi karna chahti to use uski marji se sadi karne dijiye aur aap apne parivar ke bare me soche aur parivar ke liye khushi khushi life new partner ke sath gujare.
main ek ladki se pyaar karta tha use purpose v kiya tha lekin do mahine baad jab mera job lga aur main training le liye gya tab usne v bola ki wo mujhse pyaar krti h….hamare beech baatchit chalta rha….aur issi beech usne alag alag bahane krke mujhse paise maangti rahi aur main uspe bharosa karke deta rha …uske birthday ke din mujhe pta chala ki wo sirf jhoth bolke paisa leti rahi……aur main jab usse ue sab btaya to usne sorry bolke boli ki agle baar se nhi hoga…maine maaf kiya lekin fir isne paise maange uss samay nhi diya maine…..fir isne baat v krna band kr diya ….ek din main isse poochha ki shaadi karugi n??…to isne kisi ladke ko mobile deke mujhko dhamkee dilwa rhi thi ki main usse call msg na kru nhi to mujhpe case kr degi ki main usko paresaan kr rha hu…..iske baad sabhi jagah se block kar diya usne…..iske baad hamare ek common friend tha usse pta chala ki wo sirf mere sath hi nhi aur v ladko ke sath aisa ki h……main to isse bhul v jata magar jab se pta chala h ki usne sirf paiso ke liye aisa kiya mujhe usse badla lene ki ichha hue hai…..apse suggestion maangta hu ki kya karu uske sath……mujhe ekdum se bechaini hota rhta hai hardum……..main kaise v usse badla lena chahta hu…..kuch suggestion dijiye…..
Hello Anil,
Yadi koi insan apko dhoka deta hai to uska sbse bda bdla hai ki usse hmesa door rho.
Yese insan ke bare me mt socho jisne apko dhokha diya hai.
Hello sir
Hamari relationship ko 7 year ho gye he usne shadi ko lekar. Mere sath physical hua or uske ghar vale kahi or shadi kra rahe he to mene mna karne ko kaha bat karne ko kaha to mujhe saf saf na keh diya or kaha bhool ja mujhe sir kya police ki help se ya kisi ngo ki help se me usse shadi kar sakti hu ..?? Jisse me usse apni value bta saku sir esme me kese kaam karu or kese help mil sakti he mujh
Hello Shivani,
Yadi wah ladka apse pyar krta hota to apke liye family se bat karta aur kisi dusri ladki se kabhi sadi na karta.
Lekin wah apse pyar nhi krta isliye wah dusri ladki se sadi kar rha hai aur apko chhod rha hai.
Ab aap Police ki help se usse sadi kar skti hai lekin sadi ke bad app log khus rhogi ya nahi yah ap dono ke pyar par nirbhar karta hai.
hamara sujhav hai yadi wahi apse pyar krta hai aur aap bhi usse pyar karti ho to hi police ki help se sadi karo aur yadi apko lgta hai ki wah apse pyar nahi krta to aap apne ghar walo ki pasand ke ldke se sadi karo aur use bhi karne do kyoki sadi krna to aasan hai lekin uske bad khus rhna jaruri hai
meri girlfriend mujhe har choti choti bat me brakeup kar leti hai aur meri galti nahi bhi ho to mujhe bahut kuch ulta kehti hai, mai sach bat bolu to usko bharosa nahi hota hai hamesha sab khatam karo bolti hai aur bich me mai 2 month usse bat nahi kia to wo kisi aur ladke ke sath ghum rahi thi maine fir bahut maafi maang kar usko relationship me laaya par wo fir thoda thoda bat pe brakeup karo bolti hai
Hello Rehan,
Yadi apki girlfriend bar bar breakup krne ka bolti hai aur fir dusre ladko ke sath ghumne lgti hai to yah to galat hai.
Ho skta hai use tumse pyar ho hi na isliye aap usse kuch din door rho yadi wah apse pyar karti hogi to apke pass aayegi aur yadi wah tumse pyar nhi krti to dusre ke sath ghumegi.
Jo ladki apse pyar nhi karti usse door rhna hi theek hoga.
I think sirf mai us se pyar karti hu vo mere pyar nhi karta bolta hain ki karta hain. call karti hu toh pick nhi karta what’s app par message karti hu toh deakh ta nhi hain khud kabhi bhi call nhi ke hain usne pure din bat nhi hoti hain humari.
Kabhi bat nhi karta phele asa nhi tha jab hum sath they us time jab se long distance hua hain tab se koi na koi problem hoo rahi hain muje nhi pata ki kya karu plz advise me!
Hello Sara,
Apki problem share karne ke liye Thanks.
Ho skta skta hai apka pyar abhi kam me busy ho kyoki main bhi kaam me bahut busy rhta hoon aur pahle ke jaise abhi apne lover ko time nhi de pata.
lekin kaam bhi hamare future ke liye jaruri hai isliye sirf kam par focus krna theek lgta hai.
Aap chinta na kare aur kaam me focus kare jb sb setup ho jayega to sb theek hoga.
chhod do usko uske haal par chhod diya maine bhi yaar usko usi ke haal par
kya matlb hai jab fark nhi padta hai meri bato ka meri koi felling to mere rehne par ya na rehe par kya fark padta hai jo shi lage karo
sir ham dono ke relationship ko 7 sal hoge usne muje boht wade kiye but pura ni kiya usne muje abi btya or mafi bhi magi me boht prolem me tha mere ghrwale meri cast alg he but muje apse sadi krni sir me ky karo uska yakin karo ya ni
Hello Suhana,
Yadi wah apse pyar krta hai aur usse pyar karti hai to Family walo se bat kare aur ghar walo ko sadi ke liye manaye aur fir sbki marji se sadi kare to sbse behtr hoga.
Yadi ghar wale nhi mante hai to ghar walo ko thoda samay dijiye wo kuch samay me jarur maan jayege.
aur mera bhi 8 saal ho gya phir bhi wo kabhi samjh nhi aayi uski aadt mujhe bahut samajhta tha mai ushe ki kisi bhi anjaan ladko se baat na kiya karo lekin nhi sunti meri kabhi bhi wo bolti aacha theek hai sorry aur ro deti aur ab kabhi nhi karungi meri juthi kasm khane lag gyi thi aur bahut juth bolti thi hamehaa aur pata chal jane par hume to yhi kehti ki sorry ab se nhi hoga bahut mauka de diya ushe aut pat hai ab breakup ho gya 2 month ho gya lekin ab bhi wahi aadt hai kisi ka wrong number aa gya to bhi bat karne lagti hai kyu aishw koi karta hai kisi ko felling ki kadr nhi hai ???????
Har bar galti karke bhi maf karna thik hai
Vo bole last chance do do or har bar last chance dena sahi hai vo apni galti realise nhi kar rha hai or pyar karta.hai bolan thik I am very confused ki me kya karu bar bar bolta hai ab nhi hoga or fir vhi
Hello Mahak,
Kuch mahine door raho usse, yadi wo pyar krta hoga to use apki kadar smjh aayegi aur fir apke pass aayega aur dubara kabhi cheat na karega.
aishe kuch nhi hota hai its totally wrong
फीडबैक के लिए शुक्रिया
Mujhe bahut dikkat ho rahi hai.
Mai uske gande past ko v janti hu lekin wo bharosa dilaya wo ab aisa nhi raha lekin mujhe lgta hai wo badla nhi mere sath timepass kr raha hai
Pyar me bharosa dilane ki jarurt nhi hoti. Aur kisi ko pana hi pyar nhi hota. isiye yadi aap usse pyar karti ho to uski khushi me khus raho.
wah kya bat boli hai sir apne i agree with you ek example hai aapke liye ki agr aapki gf hai aur uska kisi aur ke saath phiysacal relationship hai aur aapko pata hai lekin wo khus hai to kya ap khus rahenge boliye are kehna jitna aasan hota hai dusro ko bahut sujhao dena aur khud karna na real life me utna hi muskil hai real life hai koi movie ka seen nhi hai chalo tum theek ho tum khus ho jaao khus raho lekin humw chhod kar na jaana are aishe thodi na hot hai
Jhut bolta hai bahut koe v bat pura sach nhi btata dost gf se baat krta hai aur bolta hai ladka ka phone tha , ludo pe ladkiyon se bat krta aur bahan bolta usko screenshot bheja to nhi lga dekh kr bhai bahan wali bat hai
Hello Annu,
Hamare sath Apki story share karne ke liye Thank you.
Yadi wah apko dhokha dena chahta hai to usme ap kuch nahi kar skti aur na apko karna chahiye. Wo yadi dhokha de bhi de to adhik chinta aur tension na lijiye kyoki yah to achha hai ki sadi ke pahle hi uska sach apko pta chal jayega. Yadi sadi ke bad dhokha deta to adhik samsya ho jati.
Isliye apne future par focus kijiye aur jaisa chal rha chale dijiye. yadi wah apke pyar ki kadar karega aur apke pyar ko smjh payega to apko chhodkar kabhi nahi jayega.
Mai jisse bat krti hu mujhe lgta wo mujhe dhokha de raha lekin mai conform nhi hu lekin mujhe bahut taklif hoti hai uske badle attitude ke karan
Hello Annu,
Samay parishtithi ke anusar sabhi me badlav aate hai aur kabhi kabhi kam ki wajah se log apne pyar ko time nahi de pate isliye adhik tension na le aur apne pyar par viswas rakhe. Yadi kabhi bhavishya me apka pyar apko dhokha deta hai to fir wo bat alg hogi. lekin ap apni taraf se bfwadar rhe aur pyar me koi kmi na rakhe.
Aapki post acchi thi lekin aapne bola ki agr Ladki bewafayi kre to kaise bhi krke usse shadi kro aur har waqt pareshan kro
But aisa krne pe khud ki zindagi bhi barbaad hogi naa isse behtar h ki apne ghar walo ki marzi se kisi aur ladki se shadi krlo aur chain ki zindagi guzar sko
Mere khayal se to yahi theek rhega naa ki us bewafa se shadi krna…
आपका सुझाव हमे अच्छा लगा, शेयर करने के लिए धन्यवाद
Olat se bahar smjh k bhul jana or usee bhi block to khi bhi ni krna … bs tumhari tarkii dekh k jo regret hoga itna kafii hh … ??
आपका सुझाव बेहतर है
Pirya ji apne bilkul thk kaha jab koi hume cheat krta he to bht dukh or takleef se guzarna padta he or mere sath ye sab hua he par jo insan suchha pyar karta he wahi is bat ko smjh paega k apne pyar ko maf krna chahiye
Maito kanun ko v hath me lene wala hu, uske dusre boyfriend yani hone wala pati ko savi screen shot vheja no reaction, ab kanun ko v haath me mulnga jail hi jana padega na bhagat singh ko v faansi ki saja milithi mujhe v mil jaye to v koi gaam nhi but rules change karna chahta hu, koi ladki agar kisi ke sath khele to use v saja milni chahiye usko begunah q
kehenge aap log sath ho dosto
भाई भगत सिंह ने देश के लिए कार्य किया था
आप अपने परिवार के बारे में सोचे और कुछ भी गलत कार्य न करे
आपका परिवार आपसे बहुत प्रेम करता है और एक धोखा देने वाली लड़की के लिए अपने परिवार को दुःख और संकट में न डाले
Ldki ko saza zarur milni chahiye lekin aapko jail jaane waal kaam nahi karna chahiye plz love your self
Hmesha zarrori nii ki agr koi apko cheat kr raha h or apko bohot problem ho rhi h to ap usse bhi drd do kyuki hrr insaan ek Jaisa nii hota shayad gltii krne ke peeche koi wjh ho to usse apne pyaar se bdl do kyuki hrr glti pr sjhado ye zarrori nii kbhi kbhi maaf krne se insaan bdl jata h…
khud ko taqleef hoti h bohot drd hota h jb koi cheat krta h or ap uss insaan se bohor pyaar krte ho bt koi baat nii apne pyaar ko ek chance dena chaiye…
MERI GF MUJHE DOKHA DEDI HAI KYA KARU PRIYA JI
Chhodo usko aur Mummy papa ki pasand se sadi karke life enjoy karo.
Bhai meri story kuch is tarha he ki mera relationship 7 saal se tha me usse shadi karna chahta tha or vo bhi mujhse hm ak dusre ko bht pyar krte the phr ak din mne apni family ko uske ghr bheja use dekhne ke lie mre ghr walo ne use reject kr dia unhone use bura bhala nahi kaha bs bola k tmara jod nahi he ladki se bs phr mne use smjhaya k me apne ghr walo ke khilaf nahi ja sakta me ak lota ladka hu unka agar apne parents se behes karunga to achha nahi lagega mjhe pr me unhe manane ki koshish karunga pr vo nahi mani bht gussa thi or dukhi bhi pr mne usse bat krna band nahi kia usse continue bat karta raha phr me apne kam me bsy rhne laga zda bat nahi ho pati thi usse par hoti roz thi phr ak din mujhe pata chala ke vo ksi ladke se bat karti he fb pr kab mene sari details nikali to mjhe pata chala k unki bat 1 saal se ho rahi he or unke bich sabkuch ho chuka he jab mjhe ye sab pata chala to me pagal ho gaya because me usse apni jaan se bhi zda pyar krta hu mujhe yakin nahi hua ke vo esa kar skti he mre sath me rahegi uske pas phon karke bht roya because me na to use mar skta na gali de skta bht pyar karta hu use bs ro sakta tha k me or wahi kia or me depration me chala gaya to meri bht tabiyat bhi kharab ho gai jab use pata chala to vo mujhse milne aai or mjhse wada kia k esa kabhi nahi hoga use feel hua k usne mere sath bht galat kia phr me bht dukhi tha kya karta mne use sudharne ka moka dia or vo sudhar gai or aj vo mere sath he mere ghr wale bhi razi ho gae shadi ke lie or uske bhi mujhe kafi khushi he is bat ki k jise mne pyar kia vo bhi mujhe mil gaya ab vo loyal he mere sath or kuch mahino me humari shadi he
To mera sawal ye tha k ab to vo mujhe kabhi dhoka nahi degi na..?
Or mjhe ab bhi purani bate yad ati he to bht dukh hota he mjhe uska kya karu me?
Usne mere sath jo bhi kia pr mjhe uske jism se nahi usse pyar tha islie mne use apnaya varna aj k zamane me koi nahi chahega k me esi ladki se shadi karu jo ksi or k sath age ap smjh skte he
Plzzzzzzz replay zaroor karna iska or pura padna
Plzzzzzz reply
Bahut hi achchi story hai.
Galtiya sb se hoti hai apne apne pyar ko maf krke achha kiya.
Sbko ek moka jrur dena chahiye.
Aap aap log ek sath khus hai yahi sbse achhi bat hai.
Apki sadi ke liye Best wishes ??
Bhai aap bohot ache insaan ho aapko hamesha khusia mile yehi dil se dua h
Sir me 30 years ka hu meri shadi Ko 8 sal ho gaye..me job ki wajah se ghar se dur raha hu..aaj pata chal raha h ki last 6 years se meri patni mujhe Dhoka de Rahi thi hamare ek ladka bhi h..or usko pata chalte ki usne promise Kiya ki ab kabhi Aisa nahi karunhi pleat mujhe maf kar do me usse pyar bhi karta hu or Dhoka k Dard mere Jahan se jata bhi nahi..mujhe kya karna chahiye.. please help me
Sir ek moka apko apni patni ko jarur dena chahiye.
Yadi uske bad bhi wah apko cheat kare to fir police case kar skte hai.
Ek br chance dena chahiye
Sir pls tell me what’s should I do…because usne bohot saree ldkiyo ki zindagi brbadh ki hai..our sab zhoot bolkar…proof bhi hai…kya use kanun k havale krna thik hoga?
Jarur yadi usne kuch galat kiya hai to kanun ko jarur btana chahiye
Mai galat k khilaf aavaj uthaungi drr sirf ish bat Ka hai ki mere family valo KO Kuch na krde bss…..
nhi pta hoga aap
tenision mtt lo
kis acche advocate ke paas jao aap
Sir apko jo jo knowldge hai uske bare me job search kar skte hai.
Abhi shant rho kuch bhi mt karo aap uske shadi ke bad pura kiya karaya uske bibi ko bta dena aur bolna ko iye pyar ka natak kar sakta hai pyar kabhi nhi kar sakta jyada serious mt lena iski life ko leke apne me khus rhna jyadatar kosis kro ki aise kamine logon ki shadi hi na ho nhi to iye shadi ke bad bhi 100 jagah muh marte hain
Uski gf hai usse shadi krne Val hai aisa bol raha tha..uski gf MERI class mei hi thi usko sab btaya lekin voh bhi uske sath.hai MERI sun hi nhi rhi bolti ki tum muze q btari ho sab
100% saja milni chahiye q ki agar use saza nhi dilaya to wo or v zindagi o k sath khelenge or uske dost v yehi sab sikhenge mera yehi raye h sharm tod k saza dilai jaye, waise sabut mere pass v hai avi avi kuch dino se wahi haal h mera v par wo ek ladki h, or hamara kanun ladkio ko saza nhi deta warna mujhe kuch bhari step lena nhi padta mai barbad kardunga jail v jana pade to kya hua, court me puchenge na akhri br kuch kehna chahte ho, tb bas yehi kahunga vale hi fansi ho jaye mujhe but dhoka dene walo k sath aysa hi hona chahiye
Hello Sachin,
आपको हमारा सुझाव है की क्रोध में आकर कोई भी गलत कदम न उठाये क्योकि कुछ भी गलत करने के बाद आपकी और आपके प्यार की जिंदगी बर्बाद हो सकती है
आप कुछ समय विचार करे और फिर हो सके तो एक दूसरे को क्षमा करे और रिश्ते को आगे बढ़ाये क्योकि दुनिया में क्षमा करने वाला ही सबसे बड़ा है
Ek ladka jisse Mai 4 year ka relationship tha..usnei physically use krke muzhe chod diya..our ab dusri ldki k sath relationship mei hai…aisa usnei mere saath hi nhi km se km 6_7 ldkiyo k sath Kiya hai…uski new gf bhi usi k side mei hai ki yeh ldka accha hai.usnei muzhe kaha ki if maine kisi ko bhi kuch btaya toh voh meri family brbadh kr dega.mere father ko mar dega.mere pas uske khilaf kafi proof bhi hai..usne kaha tha shadi krenge our abh 2 month hua chod diya our dusri ldki k sath relationship mei….aise mei ush ldke Ko kya saja de?
Yadi wah dhokha de chuka hai to usse sadi to nhi karni chahiye lekin uske khilaf Kanuni karywahi ki jaa skti hai.
Voh direct bolta hai ki mere bare mei kisi KO Kuch btaya ya Kuch objection uthaya toh Mai Ulta case lga dunga….jabki mere pas sare saboot hai uske khilaf
Kanun h na jaao kanun ladko ko zarur saza degi, Or mera v yehi raye h ayse insaan ko saza dilani chahiye warna ek din pyar naam ka kuch v nhi rahega, vale hi tumhe us ladke se pyar ho but saza dilani chahiye
Hi
Hlw
Sir main meri gf se jaan se jayada pyar karta tha gf nhi wife maanta tha sir mujhe bina btaye sagai kar li or mere se dokha kar liya sir main bahut dukhi daily rota hu sir itna pyar karne ke baad mere saath itna bura huaa main kya karu sir suside karne ka mann karta hai pr apni ammi ke liye zinda hu sir mujhe kuch btao main kya karu plz sir
Amaan Bhai Jaruri nhi ki wo ladki apni marji se Sagai ki ho aur marji se sadi kar rhi ho.
Hum ladko ko apne parivar se ldna asan hota hai lekin ek ladki apne parivar ko apne pyar ke btane me darti hai.
Aap bikul bhi tension mt lo aur ladki khus hai to us me khus raho kyoki pyar kam mtlb pana nhi hota hai.
Bhai tumhari or meri kahani same h, maine ladke ko screen shot dia but no reactions, ab janun haath me lena padega ayse ladki ko saza dena hi padega warna, ek ko dekh k dusre v ayse hi kaam karna suru kar dete h or pyar khel bn k raha jata h, ha mai apne haatho me kaanun lene ka faisla kar liya h i mean kanun k khilaf jaunga publicly dikhaunga social media k jare ye mai chahta hu taaki age se koi kisi k sath khel khelnevse pehle 10br soche, fir chahe jail hi q na ho jaye mujhe, aap savi ka raye kya h???
Kisi ldki ne hmse 6 sal tk piyar kiya rilestionsip bnay…or ab usne hme chor diya to kiya hm uske khilaf karybahi kr skte
Nhi Bhai Yadi sadi nhi hui to karwahi nhi kar skte
Bhai plz help kr do same condition hai meri bi mene uske khne se job chod di gr walo se dur ho gya friends se dur ho gya aaj usne apna number change kr liya kya kru me suside krne ke alava koi or rasta nhi hai mere pass
Bhai yadi koi dhokha deta hai to adhik tension mt lo kyoki achha hua usne jaldi dhokha de diya yadi sadi ke bad deti to bahut samsya hoti.
ghar wapis jao aur family ke sath kush rho.
Or me Uske sath Kuch nhi Bura nhi krna chahti Uske sath Bura muje khud k sath Bura hi feel hota h or Saman me use badnam bhi nhi krskti Uske Ghar Jake kyoki me nhi chahti ki uski mom bhi meri trh roye Uske kiye ko jankr mom to kbhi Kisi ki dokha dena nhi sikhati unko bhi hurt Hoga ager unke ladke k bare me pta chalega
Please reply zroor kre ki kya krna chiye jisse use bhi feel ho jb koi dokha deta h to kesa lgta h
Hi Suman,
Yadi Uski Saadi ho gyi aur wah apse koi mtlb nhi rakhta to usko bhool jana behtar hai.
Wah uski buri kismat thi ki itni achhi ladki aur uske pyar ko chhodkar kisi aur se sadi ki usne.
thanks bhai share
keep visiting
ny g a gl sahi ny hegy kyu ki jenu apaan pyar krde haan ohnu kadde apaan sajaa ny de skde or apan kahange o khush rahe vo apne ghar khush or hm apne ghar
bahut achhi soch monty ji
Bhai Tumne to Jo krna tha likh dia me ek ladke se Apne aap se mom dad se god se bhi zayada bhut pyar Kia h hmesa uski ha me ha Jo use psnd nhi wo Mene dobara kbhi krna to dur socha bhi nhi hmara real 6Saal tk Raha starting me wo bhi mujse bhut pyar krta tha lekin 2019me 12Feb k bad wo ek dum change ho gya achan usne mujse baat krna band krdia for block krdia or muje bhut rulaya bhut hurt bhi Kia fir ek din Mene usse pucha ki wo ASA kyo krrha h to usne juth bol dia k Mera Rishta ho chuka h muje Bura to bhut lga fir kr bhi kya skti thi bazti meri or meri family ki Hoti ager suside krti to uska kya jata Uske koi frk nhi pdta fir bhi Mene Soch wo presan Hoga esliye asa bol dia hoga 4month bit gye me bs use miss krti or kat liye kese bhi wqt ek din wo market me muje Mila jese hi me Ghar aai to Uske msg aane suru ho gye usne Kaha wo muje abhi bhi pyar krta h miss krta h Mene Kaha asa hota to Tu kbhi Chor kr nhi jata na block krta fir wo BAAT krne lg gya usne mujse kafi bar meeting k liye Bola lekin ab muje us pr 1% bhi ykin nhi Raha tha me nhi chahti thi usse milna ab dekhna tha wo wapas kitne time tk tikta h fir se wo kbhi block krdeta kbhi unblock 10Nov ko Diwali k bad wo Rishta krne chala gya fir pta chala k sadhi hi krke aa chuka h pyar krta Hu ek din fir usne muje ye Bola tha abhi bhi block Kia hua h muje
Usne muje bhut rulaya h dokha dia h khta tha chahe Jo marzi ho Jaye wo mujse shadi krga kbhi dokha nhi dega ppta nhi kitni kasme bade kiye huye the usne ab me kya kru apni life me kyoki saccha pyar to ek bar or ek hi insan se hota h bar harbor harek se nhi ho skta aaj bhi me Uske alwa kbhi Kisi k bare bat krna to dur Soch bhi nhi skti me Uske alaw Kisi hor se sadhi bhi nhi krna chahti ye bhi sch h k uska Rishta ho chuka h lekin ykin nhi h k sadhi bhi krli ho muje kya krna chiye jesa muje feel hua h wo use bhi ho
Yadi Uski Saadi kisi aur se ho gyi hai to usko bhoolna hi theek hai.
bhulna bhut hi muskil hota h but jh tk m manu to us insn ko uski ye glti or ye sb k lie uske stt bo krna chiye k again bo kisi or k stt n kre bcz meri gf n yesa hi kiya h jo tmhtr bf n kiya suman just isi monthbki bt
jo tmhre stt ldke ne kiya whi sb mre st ldki n blck kiya achnk s jhut p jhut jesa tkhra h besa hi mra isi monthnki bt h
agr ye apki real life ka experience h to me kahunga ki aap kafi achha likh rahe h, ek blogger vahi hota h jo khud ko experience ki jagah rakhkar logo ko aware kare na ki copy paste kar traffic badhae. thanks for sharing and keep visiting
Thank you kumar keep visiting
Mere sath v aisa hi ki hai wo maine uske gharwalo uske samaj or uske 2-3 boyfriend ko uski kartoot bta diya hu
Wo v proof k sath ..
Ab wo sar jhuka k chalti hai
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bahut umda jankari de hai apne , thanks lekin kuchh bate jo apne btayi , wo sahi nahi hai ,jis aap dhokha smjhte hai wo majboori bhi ho sakti hai
Feedback ke liye thank you dear.
Keep visiting.
Majburi wo hai jo family ki khushi keliye hota hai, na ki koi dusre ladka ke sath rahna koi majburi nahi hai
Sahi Kaha aap ne
Bhaiyo me aapse ye hi kahna chahunga ki … Maine bhi apni life ak larki se pyar krta tha or obhi aapko pata he class 7 se hi chhoti si Umar sachhe Dil se chaha tha… O bahut masum lagati thi bahut achhi thi meri cast ki nhi thi .. Jada nhi thoda hi different thi mere cast se .. pr me Bina Bina samjhe pyar kr bitha . Usase pahle school pahuch jana uska aane ka wait krna .. mujhe bahut achha Lagta tha.. . Or jab me Kisi karn was school nhi aa pta to o .. mujhse naraj ho jati thi. O bhi mujhse baht pyar Karti thi . .. fir ham 10th ke baad alag alag college me chale Gaye. 3 sall tak baat nhi hue .. or use man hi man chah ta rha .. fir achank uska call Aaya mere Ghar ke phone pe or me Khushi se uchhal pra . Meri Khushi ki andaja nhi tha. Or hamari proper baate hone lagi ..jab Maine usase ye puchha mere Shiva tumhare life koi he to nhi . Na to usne saff mana kr Diya. ..kasam bhi khali ..or me pagla bharosa kr Kiya.. jab mujhe te pta Chala ki uske ak adher Umar ke larke se chakr he to. To me andr Pura toot sa gya.. .. fir Maine usase puchha ki ye sach he to usne Kaha ha sachh he . To Maine Kaha mere me kya Kami thi . To uska jawab tha. Ki mere sath jabrdasti baat krta tha o aadmi. Or mujhe Dara Diya tha.. isliye me usase baat kr leti thi.. Maine use maff kr Diya or Bola ki aaj ke baad aisa nhi hona Chahiye .. usne Kaha kasam khati hu Kabhi nhi karungi.. me toota huaa dil lekr ro pra .. ..me fir bharosa kr usne Kaha me aapki bharosa Kabhi nhi torungi.. me man gya . Usne fir se usi larke se baat Karne lagi.. me samjh gya tha ye Kabhi mere se pyar hi nhi Kari thi.. bus time pass ki thi.. me baht toot gya tha. Fir me smok start kra or use bhulne ki kisis krta rha . Pr aaj tak bhul nhi . Or aaj me BCA kr rha hu.. mera dimag kehta he ki bhil jau pr Dil bhul nhi pata . Uska aaj bhi sms aata he.. ……ak last baat aap sab se .. pyar wyar kuchh nhi hota.. Jo sache Dil se kisi ki chahe . Chahe o larka ho ya larki pta nhi kyun dhokha milta.. …
Apki Story Share karne ke liye Thank You.
Sir, m Apne bf se bahot pyar krti hu or usi SE saadi krna chahti hu buy vo n mujhse pyar krta h or na hi mujhse sadi krna Chahta h vo khta h ki m tujhse pyar nhi krta but ESA lgta h ki vo mujhse pyar krta h because sir vo MERI bahot care krta h Mera baccho ki trh khayal rkhta h or agr m khana n khau to jbrdasti apni ksm dekhr khana
Khilata h mujhe or agr phir BHI m n khau to apna BHI nhi khata or agr m Kabhi usse khu ki mujhse aaj ke baad baat Mt krna to Rone lgta h sir iska mtlb to yahi huaa na ki vo mujhse pyar to krta h but majboor h sir ab aap hi bataoge m kya kru
Hi Komal,
Yadi wah apse sadi krne ke liye mna karta hai to uski koi wajah hogi wah vajah pta kijiye fir iska solution apko mil payega.
Thank you.